Looking for my dog’s litter mates!Stonehenge Olde Bulldogs from Happiness is Pets in Arling. Heights, IL 3/05?

The breeder is Steven Kruse and the litter was born on 1/22/05. We purchased him on 3/23 of 05. That day- he and another female were the only ones left. She had a “sold” sign hanging around her neck and we came home with him. Just thought it would be fun to see what each of them turned out like. Also- similar medical probs??? Please write back if you may have a litter mate!

How much happiness has your pet brought in your own life ?

Bootsie was adopted in my life.Because he was without a home and my moms friends were going to take him to the pound a couple years ago.We decided to keep him and ever since that day hes been really loyal to me.Has really brought happiness in my life.I am more emotional since i have him.

Is it illegal for a pet store to sell a puppy from a breeder who is not licensed by the USDA?

There is a pet store called “Happiness Is Pets” in Illinois that sells puppies from Puppy Mills and Unlicensed Breeders. I was curious, does anyone know if it is actually “illegal”? The store, Happiness Is Pets, is knowingly supporting this…What are the legal ramifications for them?

Am I normal??? I am totally fixated on my pets and their wellbeing, their happiness and their amusement?

What to get them as treats? What to do to keep them safe? or happy? Should I put music for them when I’m away? There are no bounderies… And the latest thing is the craziest: I was abroad for work and I had to call my dad who was taking care of them 3 times a day to ask on how they’re doing and see if they lack anything. I paid a couple hundred dollars to litteraly let them hear my voice on speakers and hear them make any noise at all… And when I came back, I didn’t thank my sister for picking me up or my dad for pet sitting them, all I could focus on was the little ones and their beautiful fur, ears, tails… At work, I can’t focus for more than an hour without talking to dad to check on them. Without feeling I miss them crazy. It’s scary I know, but I feel that all I need is my pets‘ love.

Help I need advice i had a marriage break upnow divorced two years now and my adult son who is 21 has had so?

many issues and i am ever so worried for him he keeps haveing relationships breakdowns and he just seems to be all over the place and now is been staying with his dad my ex but now he going to take off to another state and i worry so much for him but i heard its best to let him go and learn for himself i guess i am scared for him so much i feel its my falut he so mixed up after his parents breakup he went through so much and now i feel so guilty and hurt inside and i cant do anything about it except let him go whats peoples advice out there for me being a mum is so rewarding but ever so hard too help pleaseeeeeeee

Do you think that sometimes little children often give the best advice?

They keep it so simple.

A “straight talking” schoolgirl has become a popular agony aunt at the age of seven after she called her local radio station and advised a listener who wanted to abandon her boyfriend.

The radio station was so impressed which the advice that the caller should go bowling with friends and drink a mug of milk that Elaina Smith has been given a weekly slot to give tips to adult listeners.

She has tackled problems ranging from how to abandon boyfriends, relationship breakdown, and smelly brothers.

Elaina, from Coventry, West Midlands, appears on Mercia FM’s breakfast show and helps listeners who write to her each week. The breakfast show host Andy Goulding said: “The advice Elaina offers is laid-back and honest. We have been inundated with people emailing us with their problems since she has been on our show.

“Within a minute of us broadcasting her first slot a woman in hospital phoned in saying how much she enjoyed hearing the little girl’s voice. It really cheered her up.”

When one listener wrote to Elaina asking how she could find a boyfriend, she replied: “Shake your booty on the dance floor and listen to High School Musical.”

A girl caller, who asked what she should do about her lazy older brother, was told: “Tell him to get a job and stop watching Loose Women (the television programme.”

Elaina’s mother Karen Harris, 31, a customer service employee, said her daughter was “full of confidence and the advice just comes off the top of her head. She absolutely loves it and I see a future for her in radio.”

how can i make more reliable friends?

i am always ready to help any of my friends if they need it. i have helped them thru relationship breakdowns, depression, borrowed money from my family for nights out to cheer them up and i have taken time out to visit a couple of them in hospital ect…

anyways they all promised to come to college and have their hair done by me when i started my hairdressing course in september but only one of them has done so far.

i have been working hard lately at work and when i get weekend evenings off which isnt that often (since i work in a pub) i like to go out on the town. my mates have all turned me down this weekend with various excuses. most of which dont make much sence.

i cant help feeling let down by them all since i have been there for them.
what can i do to make them more reliable?

I have some real problems with getting my life sorted out please help with some real life support am finding t?

I am currently struggling with lots personal issues that relate to who i am and what i have become. I am a caring person who has suffered a lot pressure from relationship breakdowns which are hurting me badly and stopping me from feeling settled with who i would like to be.Every time i enter in to new phases of my life i feel everyone is watching my next move and laughing at me to my face and behind my back.Some of this may be paranioa on my part or just very low self estemm which is hankering my life with a very heavy load. I am sometimes at my whits end as to what i can seriously do to extend any good feelings about myself for longer than just a week or two.My close friends are sometimes okay but other times they seem to be laughing and almost ridiculing me to my face.They have seemed to be there for me then suddenly i feel like a delluge of comments come my way and lots of unwanted pressure from people that say thay are there for you. I have also had my close family scrutimise me to death.

M boyfriend threatened to leave me because I want to become a Massage Therapist because…?

I am having issues trying to figure out what I want to do with my life. Finally the idea just came to me at 11pm at night last night. I want to be a massage therapist. My goal is to find a career that makes people feel at peace with themselves and their minds. I can’t see myself working in front of a pc cold calling people for the rest of my life.. I’m not great in school either.. I thought a certification program would be a fantastic way to go. He didn’t think so..

What should I do, I’m really excited about this option. I couldn’t sleep a wink last night because I was so excited to tell someone about it, if that doesn’t scream passion I don’t know what does.

We’ve been going for 1yr and 5 months? This isn’t a fling, we were hoping to get married in the next year or so.. so it’s not as though I can just through this relationship out the door.. I just want to ease his mind, but it was honestly shocking when he said “if you pick this career, you can do it on your own.”

My future goal is to own my own business, so how do I express to him that I want to do this career until I have monies saved to create/transform my home into my own business? I think I’m a smart cookie taking this route.. I’m into interior design too, my family wants me to persue my dream in that catagory, but I don’t see myself sucessfully supporting myself with that type of degree. What am I going to do, freelance work?

Imo, any man I think, would loathe over the fact that their gf’s have skilled hands lol. What do you think?

Is my relationship worth saving?

I recently had a loss of a job that I’ve had for about 2 years. It was real hard on me and my boyfriend was there for me emotionally through the entire thing. Now I have a new job and I started going to therapy to help me deal with things so that what happened at my old job doesn’t repeat itself. Going to therapy has opened me up to a lot of feelings and I’ve been trying to communicate them with my boyfriend but he always sees it as an argument and throws his hands in the air and acts annoyed. I read the book The Five Languages of Love that was recommended to me by my therapist because a lot of our arguments stem from me doubting his love and seriousness to this relationship. He’ll make comments about engagement but then say when we can go a month without fighting we’ll talk about it more. I gave him an ultimatum about it and he said that there were a couple of months where we didn’t grow so that’s why he hasn’t asked me yet. I know my love language is words of affirmation, physical touch, and quality time. His is quality time, physical touch, and acts of service. It’s just lately the way we spend time is doing things he wants to do, although I do have fun when we go out. He does things for me when I don’t ask him to do things but it’s like he does it because he wants to be able to say “this is what I’ve done” Lately it’s been a plea me trying to get him to have sex with me. It’s like we have a great relationship when we’re not talking about any serious issues. Like if I have an issue with him god forbid I say anything to him. We live together and all this time I thought i was listed on his lease until I found out the hard way that i wasn’t. Yet I pay rent. When I complained, he said if it gets you to stop nagging, I’ll fix it. When I changed my relationship status to it’s complicated, he said Move out and you can move back in when you don’t see it as being complicated.
It’s like I can’t figure out who’s the delusional one in this relationship. In his mind he’s boyfriend of the year and I’m just the one who he can’t win for losing with. I cry in front of him and am expressing genuine feelings but it’s like it doesn’t phase him to want to change. I’m doing all the chasing. Can you explain the Love Languages to me because if I know how he shows love, what does that mean about how I feel love? Part of me wants to move out and just focus on my new career but i really love him. I’ve never gone to a therapist to try and fix things. I literally feel like everything in this relationship problem wise is my fault and he doesn’t make me feel any different. What can you tell me to do? He has communication issues that he says he’s been trying to work on our entire relationship. I feel no give and take and i don’t want to take communication out of the equation entirely just because we can’t fight fair.

My therapist wants me to get a PhD. I don’t want one. I feel pressured. What to do?

I have been seeing my psychotherapist for about two years and we have a great relationship. He has helped me sort out many tough issues in my life and I always feel so much better after our sessions. However, there is one problem. He thinks that I am highly intelligent, which I appreciate and am flattered by, but he thinks that I will never be fully self actualized until I go to college and get a degree. In fact, he thinks that I should pursue a Ph.D. Now, I am perfectly contented in my present career and am actually married to a Ph.D. who thinks that I am fine just the way that I am. I work at a college and love my job and the environment, but have no interest in a degree. My hearts desire is to start a family and be a mother. Unfortunately, my therapist thinks that this is a waste of my potential.
Although it does not come up often, it does come up and it makes me feel awkward because I don’t want to confront it. I have tried to tell him subtly that I am not interested, but he still brings it up.
I know he means well and I think at at the root of this, he sees a lot of himself in me..but his dreams and goals are not mine.
What should I do? He is a wonderful therapist and has helped me in so many way, so I don’t want to stop seeing him. I just don’t want to feel pressured to pursue the life he thinks I should have.

Need Help!!!!! Gemini/Libra relationship on the verge of break up or may be already ?

I have been in a relationship with a Libra male for a year and a half. It definitely
Has had some bumps in it, but through and through honestly a pretty great
Relationship. About 7 months ago he started freaking out in away about his life
and his career. He said that he was getting older (35 lol) and that he needed to
figure out what changes he needed to make to better his life. He being a
Massage therapist wasn’t something he wanted to do much longer (14yrs later).
So long story short he got a job opportunity in California and told me that he
needed to do this. I went out with him to see the job and he asked if I wanted to
Move too. Being that I am 27 and have a 7yr old son from a previous
Relationship, I was a little hesisatant. Which seemed to make him disappointed. I
Don’t know if he ever healed from that……. well since that time I decided that I
would move. Well 2 months ago I noticed him being distant, not as
Affectionate, or intimate and seemed to always have an excuse on why he was acting that way. Most of the time the blame was on me, that I loved him too
much, or I was needy, or too competitive, ect. Well a month ago he dropped the
Bomb and told me he needed his space out of nowhere. It was really hard for me. I waited for a couple of days and tried to get him to talk about it, well that didn’t go so well he wouldn’t budge. We had some heated text messages and I broke up with him, uggh I know but he would talk. So after waiting two more days I showed up to his apt and just jumped in his bed where he was sleeping and just laid there didn’t question him or even talk about anything relative to us. After
that he seemed to get over it. Better! So I helped him pack up his apt and we spent Valentines Day together which put us in a different love then we had been. It was awesome!!! So I sent him off Monday morning, we hugged for 30 mins and cried and cried so more, he said that I have really changed his life and that he was so in love me. He headed to Mississippi to spend time with his mom on the way out to Cali, called and texted crazy in love till Thursday when he headed out. His mom and I are very close so we talk…. She told me that all he could talk about was how lucky he was to have me in his life and that he loved me very much but Thursday she said that she could tell something wasn’t right with him. That he yelled at her and he never ever gets angry. He barely text me until sat morning and called and seemed upset with me cause I hadn’t answered my phone when needed me that night before. (I was sleeping) then late Saturday he said that I was smothering him and he needed his space AGAIN!!!!!! uggh! Then told me to not talk to our mutual friends and not call his mom either. Of course with me being female and sensitive I let him have it on the text. No response. Except chill out! so I have, he called his mom yesterday and she told him that what he was doing wasn’t right and how can u say u loved me and wanted to be with me and then turn his back completely against me. She said, he said he didn’t know what to do. He loves me but he’s confused. Basically she let him have it. I don’t really know if that was good. So I haven’t contacted him at all in 4 days and yesterday he sent me a casual message of whatcha doing? I responded….. Nothing really exciting. I’m sorry this was so long but basically I need to know if I should just keep being cold and give him time to get situated or if I should break up with him and move on. I asked him a month ago if he wanted to break up and he said NO, I would never break up with u….. you’d do it before I would. What should I do??? I love him

Oh and I just found out that he said that he is scared that he doesn’t know if he’s ready to be a dad. And Its my fault that im not there with him now :9 even though he said that he wanted to get situated before me and my son came out there.
I tried talking hes not doing it!!

Have you ever been in a serious online relationship?

My question(s): Have you ever been in a serious relationship with someone you had (originally) met online? What tips would you give for making one work?

My story: I’m 15, my girlfriend is 13 & 1/2. We’ve been going out since June 3rd 2009. I met her on an online game about 6 months ago. Ever since I met her I’ve been crazy about her. She’s funny, VERY pretty, sweet. And I know she’s not some old pervert – I’ve seen her on webcam before . She’s not comfortable with dating guys in real life… She really likes me, and I really like her. But the sad thing is we’ll probably never meet as we’re young and she lives 720 miles away. It really depresses me because I love her so much and she’s so beautiful and unique… Although I feel I’m not being fair to her because she’s in public school where she lives and she says she gets asked out by guys alot. She says she tells them no because she loves me. although again, I feel we’ll probably never meet. And if we do it’ll be way in the future. I’m home schooled, and thus I have no real life friends. I would normally never date online like this for obvious reasons but I’ve grown so close to her so fast. She’s anything I could ever dream for. I’m just trying to find a way to better make this relationship work. Something to make us feel closer (in distance). I don’t have a cell phone (strict parents) so I can’t call her. I feel like if I ask her to go on cam I’m bothering her cause she most likely doesn’t want to most of the time … I really trust her, and I really love her. I really want it to work. But IM conversations are getting boring…we’re BOTH running out of things to say! I don’t want to let her go. How can I keep from losing her, I really don’t want us drifting apart/losing interest in eachother because we really have something. She’s my dream girl
Advice please!

Thx,
Jason.

Im going to send my online girlfriend a IM saying I don’t want to continue our relationship ANY TIPS?

I want to be polite and not mean, I don’t know if I should tell her I’ve been a living lie with her. I tried to be someone else and it wasn’t right of me. I need to tell her somehow that she just isnt the exact girl that can be my true love.

HURRY, I don’t have all day I need a quick answer.
PS!! She’s offline now should I just send her an offline message I’m not sure if she’ll be online tonight or not
I DONT KNOW HER IN REAL LIFE, IVE ONLY TALKED TO HER OVER THE INTERNET!!!!

Just wanted to clarify that.

How do you start an online relationship.?

ok i joined this web site called place4friends…i mainly joined to pick on my friend. now i has this lass a few years older than i who sent me what is called a flirt. she said to please reply. now this girls picture is pretty and i plan on writing back. but i am not sure how this works. what am i to send to her so i can still talk to her? any tips?

Internet relationship/flirting tips?

Would it be silly to say I seen this dude on a blogging site and I’m like in love with him. Its stupid but I really think I am. I watched hid YouTube video and he seems like such a down to earth guy…should I go for it? Because I’ve always been the one to constantly diss and make fun of online relationships, what do you think?

Dating sites..relationships?

i’ve been recently talking to this guy that i meet on a dating website..for about two months now..and its going well..

are there any other couples out there that meet there girl or guy off one? or even online? if so tell me your story please and i’ll pick the best one..

thanks

Is it truth Free Online dating sites are a great way to meet people and find new relationships ?

Has infidelity increased in relationships because of dating sites?

I was once dating this girl and found out she had an online profile. When I went to visit it through a friend’s account I saw that she was still online. She was online for almost every night. Of course, she said she barely surfs the web. I said nothing about it and dumped her. She doesn’t deserve closure for that one.

I met a new girl a couple of weeks ago through an online dating service. We’ve been out a few times and have fun. She tells me she’s really happy. I deactivated my account but notice she’s online sometimes. WTF? Is everybody just out for Mr. Perfect or searching for the next best thing or something better?

Online dating sites for poly-amorous relationships?

I’m very interested in a poly-amorous relationship. But how do I find other like-minded people?

I need advice from women who are married or in long term relationships?

My boyfriend and I have been living together for about 7 months, I’m 20 and he’s 22. We have hit a pretty rough spot but are not looking to go seperate ways. I have a few issues that I need some help addressing. All the important things are in place.
-I feel like sometimes his “let loose” behavior and jokes are that of a 10 year old boy. I know everyone is entitled to be immature, but jokes in public get embarrassing and the last thing I want to do is kill his spirit.
-He procrastinates about everything known to man. Not just with me, with his family, school (we’re in college) and everything.
-I have no privacy or space. We have a 1bd/1bth apartment and I can’t even use the rr in peace. The lock doesn’t work from him turning it to hard to open it while I was in here. Nothing is sacred to him! He even insists I tag along on guy only nights. I find myself @ bars watching guys slurp beer and inilate wings with sauce all over their faces. I can’t even grocery shop alone.
Please help
**I meant in “there”
I am not currently typing from the restroom, hahaha.
**I meant in “there”
I am not currently typing from the restroom, hahaha.
oh and for what it’s worth we’ve been together for a year and a half, and friends for four years before that.
any real help is appreciated.

Can’t cope with my boyfriend staring or being attracted to other women. Advice?

Can’t cope with my boyfriend staring or being attracted to other women. Advice?

I have read on so many web pages that men (who are in relationships) staring at other women or being attracted to other women is completely normal and that any woman who gets annoyed with this is crazy. I have been with my BF for 3 years; we have been living together 2.5 years. We are both 25. At the beginning of our relationship he was besotted with me, I really knew he fancied me so much and had no doubts about him fancying other girls but over time I have noticed this disappear. He says he loves me, and will never cheat etc and he does do a lot for me, but he stares at and flirts with other women inc his ex. He then lies about it and gets caught out which makes me even more suspicious (as to what else is he hiding). He doesn’t do it all the time but when I say it to him, he denies it or says he is just being nice, or he does it for no reason! We fight a lot about this. I cannot accept that he says he loves me and I am the one he is with not another girl but….it is normal for him to be attracted to other women! I do get a lot of attention from other men and I am pretty successful but it really hurts me and makes me feel so unattractive and ugly + stresses me out so much. I want to get married soon but he says he is not ready + he can’t get married when we fight this much. I know a lot of people will say that it’s is normal for men to stare and find other women attractive, but if that is the case I really don’t know if I can be with any man. I just can’t cope with it. I am so confused, I really love my BF and I want to spend the rest of my life with him, but I am only 25, I just think if he is staring and flirting now what will he be like when I am 35 married with two kids?? I don’t know whether I should just leave him or put up with it even though it’s driving me insane! Any advice

Guys, do you have any suggestions or advice on overcoming guilt?

I’ve been celibate for awhile now and pretty much given up on relationships with women for a variety of reasons. I’m fine with that, but increasingly I feel that I am becoming completely asexual.

I’ve never been to a strip club or a prostitute and I don’t think I’d ever want to and it’s gotten to where I can no longer enjoy pornography.

I’ve tried things like erotic comic books and animation, because at least with those, there’s not a real woman, so I am not wondering things like, “Is she drug addicted and trapped in this life? Was she sexually abused as a child?” and other questions that have ruined porn for me. But I still felt disgusted with myself even for the comics because they are demeaning to women.

Any advice?
Jman, I am not at all religious and haven’t attended church in nearly two decades.
First, I want to thank everyone who had kind words. They were appreciated.

I also want to thank those who put time and thought into sincere attempts to be helpful.

But I feel I should apologize for wasting your time… and worse.

It was a stupid question.

There are far worse things than being asexual, such as compromising one’s principles.

And trying to enlist others in attempts to evade my principles was base and cowardly.

I ought to be better than that and I apologize for this display.

How do women feel about dating a shorter man?

I am what I would consider pretty short, 5’6”. I have always been a little self conscious about my height when it comes to approaching women. All of my relationships have been with shorter women, around 5’4” or so, but would like to pursue a woman who’s around 5’8”. So I was wondering if there is any reason for me to be nervous about pursuing a taller woman, or am I just overreacting about the whole height thing.

Be honest, advice from women preferred.

poems about not loving someone who loves you!?

i have been in a relationship 4 2 years, trouble is my man loves me unconditionally and i have never felt the same way. does anyone know any poems which explain the way im feeling…

topics for poems help?

i have to write 15 poems and is having trouble come up with topics
do anyone have any ideas i could write about
abuse, love, drugs, strawberries, bees, teens girls, couples, relationship

Having troubles in my relationship?

Hi,
Im having some troubles in my relationship. My gf says i need to show her my feelings, i cant just say i love her, i have to show it, and she doesnt want me to show it physicaly all the time. And she’s not into poems that i write her, so im kinda stuck, im pretty bad at showing my feelings cuz ive kept them locked up my whole life, cuz im a 16y.o boy and pretty sensitive, so i dont want to show others how i feel, well now idk how to show it at all >.<
What can i do to show her i truly love her? How can i get to my feelings and show them? I really dont want to lose her cuz of this

Thanks.

Poems for a girl (Again)?

I’ve been having some trouble with a girl. We are not sure what we are going to do with a relationship, I care for her a lot, and I wrote these poems; I’m wondering if any are good. (Yes, I’m young, but does it matter that much?)

I’m just confused
When you’re amused
And it’s not me

I hate to see
My jealousy
In a year or two
I might think, “What a fool”

But right now
All I see is how

…

I wish I could be in your head
I wish your thoughts could be read
Yeah, I won’t cry
But I’ll still wonder why
You couldn’t have told me instead

Sometimes
There are no rhymes
That I can say
My words for you, Day
I don’t always feel
That this is real
And why
Do I
Not Know
How you
Feel too?

I do not know
How to show
The way I fell
I’ve been a heel
And Why
Do I
Feel this way?

Good, bad?

Should I give her any of these?

Whats the best relationship advice you’ve ever been given?

Just curious.
My brother told me to have patience and always respect another persons feelings and opinions, even when you disagree.
i love my oldest brother….now if only he would visit more than once every 4 to 5 years.

What is the best relationship advice you have ever heard..?

Whats the Best Relationship Advice u Have?

What’s the Best Relationship Advice u Have? Post anything that you think might help someone in any type of relationship problem.

Thanks alot =]

what is the best relationship advice you have ever been given?

Animes with strange romance?

I hate typical romance, it doesn’t do a thing for me. So I’ll compare situations from an anime I’ve seen & you name something like it. Oh man, I’m terrible with remembering character names…. This can be boy-girl, girl-boy, boy-boy, & girl-girl, & hermaphrodites work too. Please keep the relationships PG rated, though the violence & swearing (if any) can be bloody as all hell.

Good examples:
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1)You want them to get together, but they never do. (Ex: Neuro & Yako from Majin Tantei Nougami Neuro, & the mangaka & the tomboy from School Rumble end up with different people, Leon & D from the manga of Petshop of Horrors, the main characters from the Vampire Game manga, anyone from Pretear be it the manga or the anime, the two cousins from the Hands Off manga).

2)He’s just not that into you, because you’re crazy. (Ex: The boy from Happy Lesson never notices that a very motivated school girl has an eye for him, Il Palazzo has little tolerance for Excel in Excel Saga, Hale is terrified of Goo in Jungle wa Itsumo Hale nochi Goo, Carrot & Chocolate from Bakuretsu Hunter/Sorcerer Hunters, Perfect Girl Evolution/The Wallflower).

3)She’s not the romantic type. (Haruhi from Ouran High School Host Club, Jiyu from Juubei-Chan).

4)Love Pentacle, because a triangle is just not big enough. (Peach Girl, Marmalade Boy).

5)Sir! Yes Sir! I mean…Yes Ma’am! (Kagome & Inu Yasha, Lina & Gourry from Slayers, Inaho & Mosquiton from Master of Mosquiton 99, Chidori & Sousuke from Full Metal Panic Fumoffu).

6)Platonic life partners (Ban & Ginji from GetBackers, the four guys from Gensoumaden Saiyuki, Gon & Killua from Hunter x Hunter, those guys from the Diabolo manga, Gilt-Na-Zan & his servant from the Vampire Doll manga, anyone from Li-Ling Po manga, Sam & Frodo from Lord of the Rings, Jay & Silent Bob).

7)Miss Oblivious & her fanclub. (Chou Gals/Super Gals, Jubei-Chan).

8)Keeping an already established relationship from falling apart (Ran Kotobuki & Tatsuki from Chou Gals).

9)Save the romance for the end (Inu Yasha, Ouran High School Host Club, Shin’s confession in Gokusen).

10)Unexpected break-up in the end (Paradise Kiss).

11)Romeo & Juliette (Karen/Vampire Doll).

12)Love thine enemy (This one can be either legitimate or just really really suggestive. This ranges from innocent quarrels to blood vendettas).

13)Highly suggestive sausagefest (There are no girls in this series, or the ones that are are not romantic intrests. This covers Shounen & BL).

14)The creepy lesbian/gay guy you think is just your friend (Tomoe from Card Captor Sakura).

15)Socially unacceptable (They’re either somehow related or one is a viscous unrelenting stalker).
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Bad examples:
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*Sexual tension is not romance (Furi-Kuri/Fooly Cooly).
*Imagined interest, or the romance was axed from the anime adaption (Milly & Vash from Trigun).
*Planets orbiting the sun (Harems & reverse-harems where everyone loves one specific character, with the exception that the harem is the same gender as their idol).
*Robot love (Chobbits).
*I thought he was gay (At least two guys from Fruits Basket).
Oh, on “bad examples: Planets Orbiting”, another exception is that if the central character is just that stupid that he/she has no idea everyone likes him/her, then that’s okay, because it adds a lot to the story. Another exception is if the central character does not want the harem, like in Happy Lesson & Kyou Kara Maou, because it’s funny).
Fushigi Yuugi, huh? So you mean Tamahome & Miyaka never get together? I never could finish that show… Oh wait, that might fit into “I thought he was gay.”

Which would you choose: your spouse or your child?

If your husband and your teen daughter (also his daughter) fought so much and had such a bad relationship that she ran away
and she refused to come home (lives in a rental trailer, works for a maid service, night high school)
and you believed that they were both at fault
and he refuses to attend more than 2 family therapy session because he thinks therapy is an insuarance scam
the husband wants to disown his daughter
the daughter want to get emancipated (divorce her parents to get away from her dad)
and you can’t talk about the daughter to the husband without falling apart
and you can’t talk to your daughter about her father or she falls apart
and your whole world is crashing down around you
…………

would you give up on the daughter and try to save the 30 year marriage
or get a divorce and do all you could to help the child?
Do I know what’s going on that caused all the problems? Yes, of course.

We have been trying really hard to give her a good “launching point”. Teach her everything she needs to survive on her own. She sees this as over controlling.

This is a child who got a pony for her birthday — but it was green trained and she had to actively participate in the training. She got a car when she turned 16 — but it was a practical economy car not a new sports car and she had to maintain a B+ average to be allowed to drive it. She has the trappings of a spoiled child but not really. There’s always been some kind of a catch that made her earn what she wanted.

My husband does ask everyday if I’ve had contact with the daughter and if she’s OK.

I think she blames dad more because due to work shifts and work hours she actually has spent more time with him than me for the past 14 years.

I don’t take advice from anonymous strangers on the Internet. I was just venting. Thanks.

Is the band “Blood On The Dance Floor” a joke? 10 points?

Okay so I was doing what I usually do, listening to music on YouTube, when I decided to watch a Black Veil Brides video. I’m a huge, huge fan of BVB… they’re like my favorite band. So then I decide to look at the right of the screen for more music videos to watch, when I see a video by a band called Blood On The Dance Floor. The song is called ‘Bitches Get Stitches.’

Here are the lyrics (I am not kidding): Stop the date, congratulate, you know my name so eat some cake. Party hardy, grab bacardi, talk your shit, watch you get hit. Save the drama for your mama, what’s up with that awful gossip? Don’t be mad because my hair is so rad. Life is good up in my hood.Bitches get stitches, they end up in ditches, so get the riches, bitches get stitches, end up in ditches, get the riches (x2), Check yourself before you wreck yourself. Oh my god, blah, blah, blah, I’m rated X for explicit sex.You can talk your shit, you can run those lips, you’re only making me famous you ignoramus. I’m so dangerous, so so so so, dangerous! Bitches get stitches, end up in ditches, get the riches (x4) You can talk your shit, you’re only making me famous (x3)

And then everything pretty much repeats. Here’s the video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Um6EUIwLSm8&feature=related
Then there’s another one called “Death To Your Heart.” Behold: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NPm-N9e2ZDg

Okay so the lead singers name is ‘Dahvie Vanity.’ Apparently, he got charged for raping a 15 year old girl but I’m not sure if it was true. He also says that he put all of his life work into this, and Blood On The Dance Floor is ready to take on the U.S. Then he said there will be blood.

Here’s what his blog has to say:
“SOME PEOPLE JUST MAKE ME SICK!!!!!! How dare you be so low and just ungrateful. I happily shut off Garrett’s phone today with such joy. You see .. Garrett has been THROWN AWAY FROM BLOOD ON THE DANCE FLOOR.. Just like that! Let me give you a little history behind BOTDF.. I Dahvie Vanity created Blood On The Dance Floor and no I will never give up my dreams.. BOTDF is my life’s work.. I have bled.. I have sacrificed and I have given my whole entire life existence into this movement. My fans mean the world to me. I composed all of my music that brings utter happiness and I even wrote all of Garrett’s so called parts. HAH and what’s so funny is when he would come into the studio all drugged up from the night because he’s a druggy loser.. I would still be so kind to write and direct his parts while he slept on a couch all day. I should’ve removed him than and there but didn’t because

I am a monster… But I do have a heart.

I just didn’t want to disappoint my fans. You guys deserve the best! And when relationships fall apart it just totally sucks.. But the show must go on…

It’s funny how things work out. How people can just back stab you.. Not anymore! It’s time for a change.. Let me shed the truth..

I had to cancel some shows due to personal reasons.. False accusations we’re made against me! ME.. I am so kind and legit..I give everyone R-E-S-P-E-C-T And When I was gone Garrett decided to steal my trailer with all my gear..(((GRAND THEFT AUTO + Robbery = 5 to 10 years in prison))) and trust me Garrett would not survive in prison. He than performed a show with my music.. without me.. I’m sorry but that ain’t right.. I CREATED BLOOD ON THE DANCE FLOOR! ALL THE LYRICS AND SONGS WE’RE CREATED BY ME.. You just don’t try and take another man’s work.. That’s called grand theft dreams.. Garrett also tried to steal my debit card and access my accounts.. That’s called fraud and If I do believe so that’s a felony with a 10 year sentence to prison.

HOW DARE YOU! He’s so fortunate I didn’t press charges..”

I want to know if this band is kidding around. Are they making fun of bands like this? Are they joking, like is it meant to be funny? Or are they being serious and think they’re good? Ha ha… it’s so hilarious if it’s real…even more hilarious than if it is indeed fake. Here’s a blog about them (that’s clearly making fun of Dahvie) if you’d like more info. http://predisastered.com/2010/07/18/blood-pouring-from-my-ears-on-the-dance-floor/

By the way, if you’re a fan of Blood On The Dance Floor, I’m sorry and I wasn’t meaning to disrespect them. I understand that we all have different opinions…and I hate it when people come off as disrespectful when talking about my favorite bands. I wasn’t trying to be mean or anything.
Sorry, for the ‘Bitches Get Stitches’ lyrics, it’s ‘Stop the hate’ not ‘Stop the date’
Oh I know all about Jessi, she pretended to have a baby with Andy Biersack (Six) lmfao
Please check out this song, too. I’m laughing so hard right now…even though I’m DEEPLY disturbed
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QHOo5lZgl5A&feature=related

Name for character? These questions are fun…?

In my fantasy-drama-adventure series, the protagonist (girl) is in love with a man for more than half of the books. At first, it’s a hate relationship (she thinks he’s stalking her when he is really protecting her) which progresses to love-hate, and finally to lasting love. But the relationship falls apart after some time, and it’s mostly her fault. She’s fallen for a “better” man because she thinks he’s betraying her by doing something wrong when he is actually saving her (his actions are deeply buried in the plot). At the end, he dies while still loving her and when she finally understands everything. He has a hidden sort of identity because the society believes him to be a wrongful person, and has been in hiding for a long time, so he’s muscular and street-smart.
Well, enough plot. He’s a tall handsome guy with dark (not black) straight hair and dark eyes, he has a slight british accent, and he’s conceited, cocky, and quite anti-feminist; in contrast to and to the great disdain of the feminine but headstrong protagonist. On the other hand, he’s very protective, and sort of clever, and can be a gentleman when he wants to.

What name (or type of name) comes to your head when you read such a description?

Does marriage license in the Philippines are applicable to Canada? Marriage between Canadian and Filipina?

My boyfriend is a canadian citizen and we’re planning to get married in the Philippines. Is this marriage valid or applicable in our application for Canada spouse/marriage visa? After marriage, how long should we wait before we can file the necessary documents?

How is an arranged marriage so much more acceptable than a gay marrige?

Arranged marriages are definitely not illegal anywhere in the world, and the royal wedding is receiving so many praises. However, no politician or company would ever dare to openly accept gay marriage as even tolerable. Shouldn’t a gay marriage based on love be more acceptable than a marriage arranged for any other reason? Is marriage more about traditions and religion than it is about love?

What is a paper marriage and Cambodian arranged marriages?

A friend of mine is in an arranged marriage and he says its a paper marriage. My friends and I can only think it’s just getting the papers saying you’re married no ceremony. He says a paper marriage is a fake marriage so she can get citizenship. I read online even if they get married she still has to go through everything to get citizenship here in the US. She is from Cambodia. He also doesn’t want to get married but says it’s to late in the engagement and Cambodians don’t like it when you break them so he has to marry then divorce. Is any of this true?

What are some marriage tips/advice you can give me? What are things you did to make your marriage work?

I am 20 years old and i would like some general advice on marriage……

I do not want to be part of the 50 percent of marriages that end in divorce and i would love to prevent these things before they start.

If you are in a happy marriage and have been in one for years and years…… can you give me some advice? And tips? That worked for you?

I asked this question before and got so many great answers, i would love to hear even more great answers!