Your Questions About Relationship Questions

Chris asks…

What are some relationship questions i can ask? ?

Me and this girl are playing 21 question and well we probably reached like 500 questions haha we already asked wat was ur shortest relationship wat was ur longest how many gf/bf did u have? Will ever go out with me do you like clingy guys or girls? Things like that:) please give me as much questiins as u can :D i give best answer and 5 stars:) thanks

Lukes Love Life answers:

Some relationship questions you can ask are:

~How old are you?
~Will you ever be with me?
~You are the best. Want to hang out with me in your house?

Good luck!

Sharon asks…

Ever Tired Of Those Relationship Questions?

Gosh, I mean really, these kids or whoever posts these ridiculous relationship questions on here. Give me a break please! Must be related to those math question people.

Lukes Love Life answers:

Give them a break. They’re only young, and want “help.”
Nobody’s forcing you to answer them :)

Lisa asks…

Why do people that ask questions about relationship have such terrible grammar?

I’ve read some questions in the relationship section it seems like most people posting there have extremely terrible grammar and spelling. I know it’s just an online posting forum but you would have to go out of your way to write so poorly.

PS – > there’s a huge icon that comes up when someone spells something wrong.

Lukes Love Life answers:

I know exactly why! Because 90% of the time they’re teenagers (middle schoolers?) who either don’t care to take the time for proper grammar or their generation has been so inundated with texting that they don’t remember “you” is spelled y-o-u, not simply the letter “u” :)

Addition: Oh crap, I sound old :(

Charles asks…

What’s up with all the relationship questions in p&s?

why am i seeing more and more “does he like me?” questions in here? why aren’t they in that relationship category?
@toshiro THATS A GOOD IDEA.

Lukes Love Life answers:

I know!! I’m getting sick of it … I think the reason they put em in p&s is because they know that’s where they’ll get the most answers… I guess all we can do is report the ones in the wrong category?

Jenny asks…

What are good relationship questions to ask other people on formspring?

Lukes Love Life answers:

Are you looking for a relationship?…

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Joseph asks…

Should I just leave him to deal with her? I’m the rebound aren’t i?

i’ve been in a long distance relationship for almost 3 months now and i haven’t got to see him yet but we talk every night. and at first things were good and they still are we get aong great he tells me he loves me and i love him and all that stuff. He is super sweet to me. He is like perfect for me and he says i am to. we click really well. But before we got together he broke up with his gf who he was with over a year and lost his virginity to they were in love big time and planned to get married. she cheated on him with online boys. And he’s always saying that he still loves her but doesn’t want to be with her and they hung out a few weeks ago and he told me they hugged twice and she leaned on him when they sat on the couch and she didn’t want him to leave. He says all these things to me and it seems like he reallly wants to be with me. But i have been nosey and i found his tumblr blog and it has a bunch of stuff about her.. like he wishes she’d talk to him and he loves her more than anything. she means the world to him. pretty much everything he post is about her. and i asked him if he had a tumblr and he was like maybe why? and then he said nah he just likes to browse and listen to people music on there. so he lied.. What should i do? i like him alot and i want to see him and maybe us turn into something he really is a great guy. Why do you think he’s so hung up on her still? I am the rebound aren’t i? If you were me what would you do?
Me and Him did talk alot before we even got together while he was dating his gf he said he had a crush on me. and i was with my bf at the time. My first bf and i eventually got over him after a month. so why is he still not over her. why be with me if you’re confused about still wanting her. THIS SUCKS. he is a great guy but that’s a shittty thing to do. they don’t even think about it because all they can think about is their ex. It really hurts and it’s so UNFAIR!. I want to let him go but then i don’t…

Lukes Love Life answers:

Dear Bree,

The reason he found it difficult to let go is because there is a soul tie between him and that lady,he lost his virginity to her,that’s the power of soul,that is the reason you don’t get into bed with any man/woman. Watch it he will still go back to that girl,you can do anything about it,first love is very powerful. Note, he lied to you,you can give him a chance and confront him on this and how want to be lose ,send me a mail after the best answer,I will show you how to go about it provided he is willing.

Long distance relationship rarely works.

Betty asks…

I need some desperate advice :( It’s a long question?

This is a re post of a question. I know its kind of abuse of yahoo answers, but I really need as many answers as possible. Thank you :)
I’ve recently fallen madly in love with this girl who is in a relationship with someone else. I’ve been talking to her for hours on end; sometimes even more than 7. I have found out so much about her. She has even told me her deepest secrets that were so disturbing they made me cry out of compassion, even more then when my grandmother died. She hasn’t even told this secret to her best friend. She told me because we trust each other greatly. I have been her ‘go to guy’ lately and have been helping her out with her problems. She has this blog on tumblr and she gave me a link to it so that I can see some of her photography. On one of her posts in her blog she says ‘ I love having intelligent conversations with attractive people’ This was about me because she posted this very shortly before saying the exact same thing to me out of the blue, and I confronted her asking if this was about me. So she’s admitted that she finds me attractive and intelligent. We have talked about what qualities we find attractive in the opposite sex. She says that she prioritises intelligence over looks. I am very intelligent for my age. I am 16 and I have gotten straight A’s and have won a a local chess tournament the last 2 years in a row ( I’m not a nerd, I never study, I just have natural talent). She describe on her post ‘her idea of the perfect, attractive guy’ On it she wrote that she wants somebody who is very smart, likes to read, plays guitar in a way so impressive that it makes her drool. This perfectly describes me. I play guitar, I have even placed in competitions and made some money. I like to read. Her blog goes on describing what sounds EXACTLY like me. She has even said to me recently ‘you’ve probably noticed how I drool whenever you play guitar’ and when I asked her if there was one talent she wish she was born with she said ‘to be able to play guitar like you :P ’. But the blog goes on to say ‘its strange, the person i’m in a relationship with sounds nothing like the type of person i’ve described, he hates to read’ In one thing, back when we never would exchanged words, she answered this question on her blog ‘is there anybody that fascinates you’ her response was ‘I don’t know umm… I guess there’s Mr anon, mostly because he is so amazing at guitar; but he doesn’t talk much. Yet from the conversations we have had he is very nice and all.’ She wrote that about me out of all the people in the world that don’t talk to her. She has been with her current boyfriend for the last three years and is the complete opposite of what she wrote she is attracted to. She constantly runs back to him whenever he cheats on her, and she forgives him. She makes up excuses like ‘He finds it difficult to make friends, him kissing her was an accident’ She has depression problems and is suicidal because of some traumatic events in her life (the secret) I care for her so much, and i’m not to sure but I think she might have some mixed feelings for me. I’m thinking that maybe she is just with him because she fears change; yet this kind of contradicts the way she never stops talking about him, and how she always goes on about how she loves him. When she came to me once with a problem with her cheating, i asked her if she was only with him because she fears change. She then posted something on her blog about 200 words longs full of question, questioning her relationship. The relationship they’re in is currently long distance because of some legal stuff. If she does love him, I want her happiness to come first. I’ve told her that I trust and care about her more than she can possibly imagine and that I’ll always be there for her; though I haven’t expressed how much I love her. I just need some advice on what you people think I should do. We have a ridiculous amount in common. We listen to the same music, have the same religious and political views. She is unbelievably intelligent. PLEASE, what should I do? :(
No smart asses and please don’t complain about the length or the amount of details.
I’m really appreciating all the answers. I’ve posted this a couple of times and all i got were stupid answers complaining about the Length. I’m really happy for your feed back. You actually put some thoughts in your answers :)

Lukes Love Life answers:

Well, it sounds like you need to ask her to be your girlfriend, officially & yours alone. She keeps going back to this guy who cheats on her & that is not good. If you can continue to be a go to guy for her to bring all of her problems to while she gives her love to some other guy, well then more power to you, but I couldn’t do that if I had feelings for her. If she will put you first & be your ( Official Girlfriend ) & yours alone with that other guy being history then do it. If she just drools over a guitar player then beware because there are a bunch out there. She is young, you are young & so many things are going to change as time goes on. The first change needs to be, she is going to be ( Your Girlfriend ) & yours alone or nothing at all & if she can’t do that then I would start putting some distance between yourselves…….Good Luck!

Mandy asks…

I’m having a problem with a girl i love, but am not with. Can somebody please help me?

I’ve recently fallen madly in love with this girl who is in a relationship with someone else. I’ve been talking to her for hours on end; sometimes even more than 7. I have found out so much about her. She has even told me her deepest secrets that were so disturbing they made me cry out of compassion, even more then when my grandmother died. She hasn’t even told this secret to her best friend. She told me because we trust each other greatly. I have been her ‘go to guy’ lately and have been helping her out with her problems. She has this blog on tumblr and she gave me a link to it so that I can see some of her photography. On one of her posts in her blog she says ‘ I love having intelligent conversations with attractive people’ This was about me because she posted this very shortly before saying the exact same thing to me out of the blue, and I confronted her asking if this was about me. So she’s admitted that she finds me attractive and intelligent. We have talked about what qualities we find attractive in the opposite sex. She says that she prioritises intelligence over looks. I am very intelligent for my age. I am 16 and I have gotten straight A’s and have won a a local chess tournament the last 2 years in a row ( I’m not a nerd, I never study, I just have natural talent). She describe on her post ‘her idea of the perfect, attractive guy’ On it she wrote that she wants somebody who is very smart, likes to read, plays guitar in a way so impressive that it makes her drool. This perfectly describes me. I play guitar, I have even placed in competitions and made some money. I like to read. Her blog goes on describing what sounds EXACTLY like me. She has even said to me recently ‘you’ve probably noticed how I drool whenever you play guitar’ and when I asked her if there was one talent she wish she was born with she said ‘to be able to play guitar like you :P ’. But the blog goes on to say ‘its strange, the person i’m in a relationship with sounds nothing like the type of person i’ve described, he hates to read’ She has been with her current boyfriend for the last three years and is the complete opposite of what she wrote she is attracted to. She constantly runs back to him whenever he cheats on her, and she forgives him. She makes up excuses like ‘He finds it difficult to make friends, him kissing her was an accident’ She has depression problems and is suicidal because of some traumatic events in her life (the secret) I care for her so much, and i’m not to sure but i think she might have some mixed feelings about me. I’m thinking that maybe she is just with him because she fears change (yet this kind of contradicts the way she never stops talking about him, and how she loves him) The relationship they’re in is currently long distance because of some legal stuff. If she does love him, I want her happiness to come first. I’ve told her that I trust and care about her more than she can possibly imagine and that I’ll always be here for her; though I haven’t expressed how much I love her. I just need some advice on what you people think I should do. We have a ridiculous amount in common. We listen to the same people, have the same religion. She is unbelievably intelligent. PLEASE, what should I do? :(
No smart asses and please don’t complain about the length or the amount of details.

Lukes Love Life answers:

Tell her how u feel and if she feels the same ask her out. Of course the boyfriend is the problem but you will work things out i am sure

Nancy asks…

Help?? I can’t get over him and i don’t want to!?

I met this guy around 3 months back, during a program. He’s not the kind of guy that I would usually crush on; if he was in my school I’d probably never even look at him twice. But I got to know him and we shared so many sweet moments, and he became my first boyfriend. I love him so much. But then when the program ended we got separated, and this has really been messing with me. Now that I don’t see him 24/7, I don’t know what to do. I still talk to him on the phone and online, but lately it’s kinda died down, and I feel like he doesn’t love me, or care for me as much anymore.
Everyone says that I should let go, since we are so far apart, but I can’t. I can’t just let go, I love him. But while I cry myself to sleep over him I just feel like I’m the only one who is actually feeling like this over our relationship. If there is one.
What’s really bad is that I have depression and anxiety attacks. I’m suicidal too. And getting separated from him was an extra blow, and all these problems…
I’ve lost so much weight, I can’t sleep at night, and then I sleep for nearly 24 hours at a time, I can’t eat, I just want to cry all the time and all I think about most of the time is ending all of this. It’s absolute torture waking up in the morning and going through the day.
What should I do?? I need to see him, but I’ll probably have to wait at least 3 more months before I do, and then after that I don’t know if I’ll ever see him again and it breaks my heart.
I have no friends, at least no close friends to talk to. I feel so alone. I just need to know how do I get better?
for a more detailed ‘description’ u can see my blog, i write it mostly to get things outta my mind, not for other people, but i’m just getting desperate for help.
blog: thefrei.tumblr.com

Lukes Love Life answers:

You need to see if he has moved on. If he hasn’t and still loves you, try and get a webcam and video chat daily so you don’t feel so apart. If he has moved on, you need to as well.

James asks…

Will I ever overcome my anxiety (long question, but plz, care)?

OK, this question involves someone I’ve been romantically been interested in since day 1. In order to ask the question properly I have to establish the history between us. That’s why this question is long(ish).

I met her nearly three years ago during my first year of high school. At the time, this person, a girl, was a junior at the school. I was really nervous and uncomfortable because of all of the new things and just socially naive and she seemed to observe that in me immediately, so the first words she said to me were “Do you think I’m pretty?” Too scared to try to…I don’t know I just told her she was. She was just sort of teasing the new kid and having fun with me. I immediately fell melodramatically head over heels for her.

She’s one of those “just don’t give a f*ck” type girls that dyes her hair a lot, has tattoos, loves metal, and whatever else that category of person is. I love that type of girl.

I spent the next two years until her graduation being dead-scared of her because my love (I’m not sure it was that, it was just really, really, really intense teenage infatuation) was just frightening me and she was so intimidating and godly and out of my league and all of that. She was everything I wasn’t and wanted to be. I was so afraid of her I was convinced I had gynophobia (I still think so).

Then our time together in-person came to an end with the two of us and two other people working as a group on a final project for the final quarter. I never really talked to her, just admired from afar and beat myself in the head for looking at her and throwing up in toilets from anxiety and sh*t and on the last week I told her on a Facebook message how much I felt for her, how I knew rejection was due, that I told her because I felt she deserved to know, and that I really hope she’d kick my a*s for having been the criminal admirer that I was. She gave me the silent treatment and I got the goodbye I deserved: none.

That was last June.

Now it’s June 2010 and I’m practically a senior myself (for the 2010-2011 school year anyways) and out of the blue tonight (I have serious insomnia so I’m always up at night) I asked her an anonymous question on her tumblr.com blog-page. I told her she looked like Angelina Jolie a bit and asked her if she knew any good serial killer movies to watch (she and I both like serial killer movies).

When she responded she said she was told she looked like AJ all the time but was always appreciative when she heard it, then she listed some movies.

When I got the response I became to intensely depressed and teary-eyed and anxious that I decided that for no reason I would try to huff a Sharpie marker.

That’s some of my life.

I just don’t think I’m ever going to be worthy or capable of having a romantic relationship, I don’t see any reason why anyone would want me and…WHATT THE F*CK IS WRONG WITH ME?

I just need some answers. Some commiseration. Someone to love me and encourage me. IDK. Say whatever you want. Just let me have a solace from these issues!
- To world and all its contents, I reposted this question on Singles & Dating and have yet to receive a single answer!

Lukes Love Life answers:

This question should be on ‘Singles and Dating” not “Mental Health”.

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Your Questions About Relationship Issues Forum

Betty asks…

Is there a forum where you can just discuss about life problems or situations?

Basically I just need to talk about my family issues lately. I need input by many people, I asked a question on here, but I didn’t get very many feedback. Also, in a forum, people can post again and again, and that’s what I want. I want to explain my situation better. So any forums where I can discuss about life problems? Like a big forum where it has all life problems, like relationship etc.

Lukes Love Life answers:

I think they call it a blog.

Sandy asks…

I want to help develope a closer relationship with my cousins and self?

There are some family issues that took place amongst our parents when they were younger and in their teens. The anger, jealous etc between them has been carried over and the first cousins are not getting along because of it, our relationship is next to none. I want to have some type of open forum to begin the lines of communication to build a better relationship. Where do I start?

Lukes Love Life answers:

Send them a letter or email. Tell them how you feel. Tell them about your life. Explain to them you want a relationship and your parents’ problems shouldn’t be their childrens’ problems. Just be honest. If they respond that is great. If not, you did all you could and I would think they wouldn’t be the type of people you’d want in your life anyway!

Maria asks…

is there a internet forum where you can sort out questions about your life issues?

issues like social, relationships, addictions ect

Lukes Love Life answers:

Hello

I have a forum, you can place life issues in the Guidance Corner for all to give opinions/advice etc on. Http://www.holisticpathstowisdom.co.uk
Free Psychic:Spiritual:Mind Community

Sadhara

George asks…

Do you want advice on issues going on in your relationship, or just want to brag about your mate then come see

http://www.groups.yahoo.com/group/Looking4thatspecialsomeone

This is a group for straight males and females who are seeking companionship, love, and possibly a permanent relationship. If you are into anything other than straight relationships, this is not the place for you. Note: Due to the fact that we may have members in the group that don’t understand the preceding, all messages will be closely monitored.

The reason I am starting this new group for other’s to possibly meet
new people.

This group is meant for you if people:

1)IF you are facing problems in relationship
2)If you are seeking your soul mate
3)If you think you can advice others
4)If you are seeking tips about pleasing your bf/gf

This group will be moderated and I assure you that it will
be one of the best ever groups where everyone can interact with each
other without any kind of hindrance..

PLEASE NOTE THAT THIS GROUP WILL NOT HAVE ANY ADULT CONTENT BUT TO
SHARE FEELING KNOWN AS LOVE & TO SEEK ADVICE IN THAT MATTER.

SO you can have genuine people here looking for making friendship
with you, and who knows, you may find your soulmate here.

Suggestions are most welcome.

We also understand that some members would like to have their partner back. This is a forum for some members who want to save their relationships and stop their breakup, separation, or divorce. Breaking up doesn’t always have to mean it’s over for good. We invite you to join us and exchange support, ideas, and encouragemnt with others who know how it feels to be in love.

Now in closing this is a great group for serious people looking for love and long term relationships,so get a pic and upload and start posting messages. Tell us a little something about you, and what you are looking for in a life partner. This group is now being created for all of you, I really hope you enjoy this group.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/lostfoundandlooking

Lukes Love Life answers:

Heck, I found love here on Yahoo Answers with ALL these wild and crazy people. Reminds me of Siblings Fighting and Arguing all the time. I right at home. But, thanks for your concern.

Steven asks…

‘Ex’ tried to screw up online relationship, why?

I met someone I liked online and this person who thinks we had something together was hiding in the chatrooms watching me. He has been following me for a long time. He saw me talking to my new man and tried to ruin it. He told people and the man all these lies about me. Why is he stalking me online and trying to destroy or make the other man not like me by trying to make me look bad? The things he says about me no one ever says to me. Theyre the most stupid things ive ever heard and so far from the truth its pathetic. Yet he still tries to destroy everything Im involved in or have and bring my day down/ Why is he doing this? Also what kind of guy would bring ‘relationshipissues into a public chatroom forum and start to name call ? Is this nuts or what?

Lukes Love Life answers:

He either still has feelings for you and wants you back or his ego is so bruised, that he wants vengence. If he’s not happy then he’s going to make sure your not either.

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Your Questions About Online Relationships Never Work

Betty asks…

Do you think online dating is shallow?

Well I have been talking to this guy and he lives sorta close…i live in Indiana he lives in Massachusetts
do you think that online relationships never work and they are for lonely people? I agree I’m sorta lonely and I’m not looking for anything really serious but still….

Lukes Love Life answers:

I personally don’tt think online is for the lonely.
I met my partner on a lesbian dating site. She lived like maybe 30 minutes away from me. Like after 3 months talking on the phone we met in person and 2 years later we are living with eachother and very much in love!

Thomas asks…

Why do so many people think online relationships dont work?

i dont see why people are so freaked out by it. i met a great guy through the internet. he came to see me and it was the best 2 days of my life. we are perfect for each other, and i would have never met him if it wasnt for the internet.

have you ever have an online experience work for you?

Lukes Love Life answers:

People are just set in their ways. The Internet is so new, and it’s so EASY to pretend to be someone you’re not on the Internet… It scares most people.

They think that it’s not possible to really KNOW somebody you met on the Internet, and that you are risking your safety by personally meeting anybody you know that way.

Also because long distance relationships don’t usually work out… And the likelihood of a person you met on the Internet living close to you are SLIM.

You DO need to be careful… The Internet is wonderful, but it also opens a lot of doors for the psychos.

Internet dating HAS come a long way in the past few years… When I was in college, meeting people on the Internet was considered only for ugly nerds who couldn’t get anyone to like them if that person was able to SEE them.

Ruth asks…

Will my online relationships work out?

I’ve never been a fan of online dating. But after starting to talk to someone, I became his friend. And well… we became more. It’s really complicated, because we’re grown to each other a lot. We REALLY want to make it work, since there is a possibility to online dating, as what I’ve heard…

So i was just wondering for any advice, because I’m very insecure, and i really want to be with him. It’s probably silly, but I do want us to work. I’m just afraid that when we first meet, we won’t feel the same as we do while we talk ONLINE. I just feel like I’m stuck in a situation, that no matter which way I choose to get out of it, it will hurt. Not only for me, but i don’t want him to hurt either… because our relationship got really deep. It’s hard not being able to speak to each other, but we can’t talk on the computer 24/7.

He wants to meet up with me, and its making so much complications cause it cost a lot… and I’m afraid. I don’t know what to do honestly… What if I do go there? I’m afraid it might not work out, and I’m really scared of rejection. But at the same time, I really, really want us to be a real life couple.

Lukes Love Life answers:

I met my boy online and we’ve been getting to know each other and falling in love long distance (Europe-US) now for over a year. I definitely have freak outs occasionally, wanting more on a daily basis! But in the end, thanks to these freak outs, I think, we have found creative ways to get progressively closer, and he is coming to visit in just a couple months now. I know what you mean about wondering if it will be the same feeling in rl– that’s totally normal to feel that, I think, and me and my boy do, and your boy probably does, too. But there are ways to feel like you know a person better than just typing, and maybe you should try some of these to ease into being more comfortable, rather than going straight from written words to oh-my-god-there-he-is!

Skype: Thanks to skype, we don’t type all that much anymore, more like we spend hours on the phone every night. I totally recommend it– hearing someone’s voice and laugh is so much nicer.

Pictures: Seems obvious, maybe you’ve already done it, but I have a tip: to be sure it’s really the other person, make sure there is some special thing also in the picture, so you know they aren’t jsut sending a pic they found on the web! Like, I wore the football jersey he had gotten me for my birthday, and he had the present I got HIM for his birthday on the desk behind him. Paranoid, sure, but better safe than sorry– especially since you say this guy is pushing to meet, you should be wary… If he is who he says he is he will be patient, and give you time.

Webcam: One step better than pics! This way you can really tell if the guy is your age, and looks like he said he did, for one thing. And also, it just makes you see the other person’s little facial things, how they smirk or play with their hair or fidget in their chair, or whatever… Definitely made me feel much more in tune with the guy, anyhow.

Online dates: Be sure to do things tht can show your potential for just hanging out, doing things that most couples do. Like, shopping, watching movies, watching tv shows… Hulu.com has free movies and tv shows, and my guy and I will sometimes relax after work/before bed by watching a couple of them together nad not talking too much, just laughing and feeling like we are in the same room.

Anyhow, like I said, this is my first online relationship, but from my experience, it has been a challenge but totally worth it! And at this point, I DO feel like I know him so well, and he knows me so well, that it takes some of the pressure off of our first meeting.

Hope this helps!! And remember– I don’t know how old you are or how long you’ve known this guy, but BE SAFE! Be sure you KNOW who this guy is before you agree to meet, and DEFINITELY don’t go alone, no matter what… Let friends and family know where you are going, and have someone go with you to be extra safe. Any normal guy will totally understand that level of concern for your own safety.

Good luck!!! :)

Linda asks…

why do so many people think online relationships dont work?

i dont see why people are so freaked out by it. i met a great guy through the internet. he came to see me and it was the best 2 days of my life. we are perfect for each other, and i would have never met him if it wasnt for the internet.

have you ever have an online experience work for you?

Lukes Love Life answers:

Because they never had one
jane

Donald asks…

Romantic / friendship gift. First time meeting from online relationship. $100 range haha. Bahh opinions.?

Ok soooo this summer I am meeting (possibly if things go well) a girl that I have been carrying on an online relationship with for quite some time (4 months dating, 1 1/2 years as very good friends). Yep online relationships are weird I know. Never really planned on getting into one, sorta just happened. Thats life anyways. Now I probably will NOT take your advice, as I tend to do what I like to do…and not what others tell me to do haha. But I just want it just in case, and to get some ideas flowing in my mind. We are only going to be able to meet for like a day or two, then its back to being distanced from each other for awhile *cries* :( . So I would like to get her a gift that she can remember me by…..just so she can have something physical as she goes through the day to think of me. :) . Yeah yeah, awww thats sweet and whatever lol. But what would you confusing females out there want from a guy that you have been longing to meet for quite some time (Im taking her word for that haha :D ) Nah I’m not rich, preferably like $100-$200 ish price range (hey what you expect out of a 16 yr. old dude). Generally like to do whatever I feel like she would love, you know my own thing, to keep it real, and not take other people’s advice…that way its my idea…makes it more personal in a way. But give me some ideas just in case :) . My god please no comments from people who say online relationships never work haha. I don’t care about your opinion on THAT part of the thing :P . I love her, end of story.

Ps: incase you guys are thinking, only 4 months? well we would have met even if we were only friends eventually, because we have been very good friends before then….and I probably would have still gotten her a gift to say thank you for all your support…even if we weren’t going out.
Will add because of the first answer. I did not meet this girl on internet chat sites or anything. Like I said it was a complete accident, had no intentions of anything. Everything just happened, NEVER wanted an online relationship haha. Trust me its hell not seeing her. And only reason I don’t get a job is homework, working out, school sports, etc. And no, I’m quite fine with all the “serious trouble” aspect of it. I’m not a dumbass.

Lukes Love Life answers:

Hopefully she is old enough for this sort of activity, or you could be getting yourself into some big trouble.

You spend a couple of hundred bucks on a first date gift, you better lay off the internet chat sites and find yourself a study hall. That way you can get a job where you can make some casheesh to support your romantic lifestyle.

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Your Questions About Relationship Help Online Dating

Nancy asks…

Online relationship help?

Okay here it goes Ive known this guy online for a little over two years now, and I want to meet him either this comming summer or the next. Im 100% sure I want to meet him and I couldnt even tell you how much I love him. Dont worry I’ve seen him on webcam and seen many pictures of him. Including some pictures with him and his family. And Ive talked to him on the phone alot over the two years. So lets just say I have alot of proof that he is who he says he is. I love online dating it gives you a chance to see the inside of the person and I love that. Ive dated people here sure but never felt the way I do with this guy. I live in Ohio and he lives in South Dakota. We’ve been dating on and off for about a year now, their hard and thats why we kept breaking up. But I want to make it work this time so I want to meet him. His mom said she would pay for the plane ticket but I know another way I could get there to. I could have my mom drive me up there that way she can meet him to then drop me off there for awhile and his mom could just pay for my plane ride back home. (yes my mom knows about him and his mom knows about me)Which way sounds better? The plane ride or my mom driving me then the plane ride home?
p.s Im 16 and if you have any stories or opinions I’d love to hear them.

Lukes Love Life answers:

Let him come to you.

Sandy asks…

Online Relationship help…?

Okay, I met this WONDERFUL guy online. He’s amazing. He’s great to talk to. We hold the same interests and we have been talking for a while. He’s very attractive (Web cams). He brought up the topic of online dating and he asked me if I wanted to give it a try. I said that I didn’t know and I needed more time. Is it hard to do? I’m asking for your personal opinions on online dating and if you have ever tried it, what is it like? (: Thank you for your time.
I know he’s around my age by looks, otherwise he’s really good at hiding it… and I know he can’t really be faking it like pictures because there’s a webcam. Plus, we HAVE been talking for a while…

Lukes Love Life answers:

I’ve never done it but I have a friend that does it, he has met some really cool girls online. But of course they end up meeting up even if they live far from each other, he wont date anyone online unless they actually meet in person and try and build an actual relationship.

Donald asks…

Do online dating services work?

So I’m 21, and I’ve had a string of really bad relationships. Liars, cheaters, the works. I’m actually considering one of those online dating websites. Does anyone know much about them? Used or know someone who used them? I obviously don’t know where to look for the good guys. Can anyone help?

Lukes Love Life answers:

I’ve heard a few personal stories and just like regular dating, it works and doesn’t work.

Personally, I think in this day and age people should utilize online resources. What’s the difference between meeting someone online or in a bar? The person in a bar can easily lie to you about themselves.

I’ve taken a lying and deception course and it shows that people tend to lie less about huge issues online.

The best one to use is eHarmony.com. They have a questionnaire you have to fill out beforehand and they match you up based on your answers on what they have researched to be the top characteristics of a successful relationship. It also has guided communication so you can slowly work to get to know one another. The downside is that it is quite expensive. It takes time (just like regular dating) and people are always in a rush.

My friend’s mom uses Match.com and she’s met some potential dates on there. Match.com is less expensive and gives you more freedom to write what you want about yourself. It’s open communication and they match you up on what you say you want.

Whichever service you choose, just like regular dating, realize that it takes time and you might need to have subscriptions from 3 months to a year to find someone.

Good luck on your search!

Thomas asks…

online dating????????

I’m in a long distance online relationship and things have gotten out of hand. He’s too controlling and mean, he has anger issues and we don’t know what to do. I’ve tried everything I can think of communication isn’t a problem or anything he just asks too much from me.

He asks me not to be scared of him when he has seriously scary anger issues he goes out of control. He asks me not to be scared of having a child with him, and he asks me to do things for him that I don’t want to do because they seem very unreasonable to me.

I told him I wanted to take a break but he says no. Taking a break is the last thing I can think of that could possibly help, I just don’t know what to do. I can trust he is who he says he is and everything because we’re on a skype video call ALL the time 24/7 and I actually mean that VERY literally every minute of the day we are on a video skype call. I see him and he see’s me. So there’s no need for answers that say “you don’t even know the guy he could be some old perv in his mom’s basement” lol
I’ve already told him to stop but he doesn’t, he doesn’t trust me he creates these little scenarios in his head that i’ll meet some hot guy and we’ll go have sex or something… >:( he doesn’t trust me at all when he’s the one that has cheated on me, i haven’t givin him a reason not to trust me and i have told him that but he just doesn’t listen to me…

Lukes Love Life answers:

It seems that the guy has personality problems. He cannot give trust to you and that is very difficult in an online relationship. You have to make a choice and stop wasting your time for the things that you don’t already like. There’s a lot of nice people out there. Next time, just be cautious in dealing with these people. If at first it doesn’t turn that good, find another guy!

Carol asks…

Wanna help me make an online relationship less boring?

I never tried online dating before now, anyways I’ve been with this girl for about 3 months now, and its starting to get boring to me, and I’m pretty sure to her too. It’s not that I’m getting bored with her (I still love her alot and everything), but just the way we’re dating is getting old. Could anyone give me some advice on how to make things more exiting for us?
1. Yeah, but that’s kind of hard to do through a computer.
2. I want this girl.
3. Yes we’ve talked on the phone. Doesn’t make much of a difference though.
5. Who said we’ve never met? ;)
6. No, it’s definitely not made up of lies.
Ok people you’re missing the point.
I’ve had girlfriends before, the point is I’ve never had an online one before and need help with that. I’m not going to break up with her.
Yes I’ll make sure to finger her clit. I might even give it a lick if she gets lucky. Thanks for the tip.

Lukes Love Life answers:

Mate meet up with her and start fingerig her clit. Its that easy

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Your Questions About Abusive Relationships

Nancy asks…

How come some women go from abusive relationships to abusive relationships?

I was talking to my coworker today at work and she told me all the relationships she has ever been in have been abusive including the one she’s currently in. She’s married with a kid. She wants to leave but it’s so difficult since he doesn’t want a divorce and there’s a child involved. I was shocked. She said they were nice at first and then turned violent. How come some women are just that unlucky with men.

Lukes Love Life answers:

They are attracted to the wrong type of men.

Seen it happen so many times.

Helen asks…

How do tough/strong women end up in abusive relationships?

How do tough/strong women end up in abusive relationships?
Why are the tough/strong women in abusive relationships, and people shocked when it happens?
They are usually the first ones to fight and defend their friends against a man, but how do end up with abusive men?

Lukes Love Life answers:

Obviously noone really knows the answer to this question, but my opinion is that a man who beats on a woman has either been beat on by a parent or is a scared person. By hitting a woman he feels like he’s stronger than her and he has control of her. If a woman is a tough woman he may feel intimidated by her and feel the need to “show her who’s boss”. Dont think that i am justifying what these men do is right. Im not. At all. Im just saying that if she feels that she still wants to be with him after the abuse, she needs to talk to him and find out where the anger is coming from. Another outlook could be that the woman herself is somewhat abusive. The biggest misconception on abuse is “is physical worse than emotional (verbal)” it is not. Sometimes words leave the biggest most painful scars. So if a woman is hurting the man she “loves” by cutting him down all the time and he takes it and just yells back and its a huge yelling fest, the couple gets nowhere, so someone ends up taking it to the next level. Maybe someone throws something the “well i never hit him” clause. Then the other one throws something back.. Now its gone from verbal to physical. Where else to go from here than more physical right? You run out of things to throw and you start pushing eachother… Ect. This is the case for most abusive relationships… I realize this is not the case for all of them.. If you are a strong woman and he is not the type of man that just comes home from a bad day of work and decides to take it out on you and throw you around a bit because his boss rubbed him the wrong way (which if he is, you need to leave and possibly try to get him professional help, someone is going to get seriously hurt, or killed) but if he’s not that guy, and he just has a bad temper, talk to him try to tell him how you feel and that you want things to work for the best.. The more you talk to him about it (when youre not in a bad mood) the more he will hear your voice in his head when you do end up in a fight. If he truly loves you he will work on controlling his temper… Just remember everyone has a past and its not always what they portray… It has nothing to do with who you are when you “end up” with someone like this, it just matters who you are as to how you deal with it.

Richard asks…

Why do some women continue to stay in abusive relationships?

Is it really that hard to just end the relationship? How could they even put up with that and allow an individual to physically/mentally abuse them?

I just never really understood the whole concept of women staying in abusive relationships, whether its because they supposedly “love them” or because they have children together.

I just can’t fathom why anyone would stay in an abusive relationship, so why?
Serious answers only please.
I know this has nothing to do with pregnancy&parenting.

Lukes Love Life answers:

As a former advocate for abused women there are many reasons why women stay. Fear of the unknown is one reason. If a woman is told constantly that she’s worthless she begins to believe it. Statistics say it takes 7 times of leaving and returning for a woman to leave for good and that last time is the most dangerous.
I know for me that was the case, the last time I left, my children and I were nearly killed by my ex-husband.
As a woman gains her independence the abuser starts to see changes in her and he will either make promises to change, even going so far as to get counseling for his abusive nature. Most times the couple will go into what we in advocacy call the honeymoon period. Where things seem perfect, the abuse has stopped. However it last no longer than 2 weeks tops after that the abuser becomes most volatile.
Listen to the songs by Martina McBride
Concrete Angel
Independence Day
Both of those songs are very graphic but a very true explanation of what happens.
If you know of someone who is being abused please speak for them because you may be their only voice. Silence can kill the innocent.
Duchess

Betty asks…

What causes women to seek abusive relationships?

I have 4 brothers, and 3 appear to have healthy, functional marriages, children, etc. However, 3 of us 4 sisters suffer TERRIBLY from very abusive relationships. Why? There MUST be some common denominator! PLEASE RESPOND! We all have same parents.

Lukes Love Life answers:

Low self esteem.

Susan asks…

How come battered women choose to stay in abusive relationships rather than just leave?

I was watching a tv show and the husband was beating his wife. But she would never leave him she kept going back to him. I just don’t understand if I was getting beat up I would flee the relationship asap. Why do so many women choose to stay in abusive relationships?

Lukes Love Life answers:

Many reasons, but the one most commonly overlooked by those on the outside trying hard to figure it out is: love.

Society just can’t seem to understand how anyone could love someone who abuses them. But trust me, if love wasn’t an issue, it would be easier to leave. Sure there are other reasons, too, but love is a very powerful thing.

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Your Questions About Love And Other Drugs

Donald asks…

Whats the last song in Love & Other Drugs closing credits It starts at about 1hr51m and its of a lady humming?

Its some lady humming gently, im DYING to find this song :(

Lukes Love Life answers:

Are you talking about fidelity by Regina Spektor?
Http://m.youtube.com/index?desktop_uri=%2F&gl=US#/watch?v=dRwgmgEeT8c

James asks…

How To Watch Love and Other Drugs Online For Free Full ?

Please tell me step by step How to Watch Love and Other Drugs Online For Free Full? will be thankful to you. . .

Lukes Love Life answers:

Lots of Jake whoring around too. Some pretty gross moments, especially one involving a sex video but it really made me laugh. Judy Greer of Arrested Development was cool in a small role as a naughty nurse. Story of a sales rep for Viagra who falls for a beautiful artist with (no spoiler here). Well paced, well acted and well written. Check the source to watch Love and Other Drugs Online For Free

Daniel asks…

Watch love and other drugs online full except megavideo?

Wanna watch love and other drugs online but the problem m facing is that it is not in full length anywhere on net. On twitter my friends was saying that he has already subscribe for this movie. Is there any site on net from where I too can subscribe for love and other drugs movie. So that after its releasing I can download love and other drugs. Now i also want to watch its trailer.

Lukes Love Life answers:

Visit this site to watch this movies online

Jenny asks…

What is the name of the song in love and other drugs..?

What is the name of the song in Love and other drugs when Jamie sees Maggie in the restaurant with another man? It is just the humming.

Lukes Love Life answers:

If you are looking for any movie, cartoon and TV series, you can not do without a good website with movies. I use this site is very time consuming and very happy with it. If you are interested in this huge site, with its huge collection of movie then you direct route to http://World-Movie.net

Sharon asks…

How do I get my hair like Anne Hathaway’s in Love and Other Drugs and not in ringlets?

Yeah, so I’d like it to look like this: http://www.filmofilia.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/love-and-other-drugs_03.jpg I don’t want it in ringlets. I have straight hair, so it usually turns out that way, ya’ know, extra extra ringletty.

Lukes Love Life answers:

You need to buy a bigger curling iron and wrap the hair around it instead of curling up at the end.

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Your Questions About Relationship Coaching Books

Michael asks…

Where will LeBron be in the 2010 season?

I know people may be sick of this question. But I just want to know what the majority of people are thinking. It comes down to Cleveland, Detroit, New Jersey, and New York. I’ve heard Boston thrown in there, but that’s absolutely ridiculous. And I have no bias for any team, as I live in Seattle, who no longer has a team. This is more a discussion than a question. I will present you with my idea, but I would really like to know what all of you are thinking.

Here’s my take on this:

DETROIT
Traded Chauncey Billups and Antonio McDyess for Allen Iverson. Allen Iverson and Rasheed Wallace are coming off the books after this year, and they will have enough cap space for two max free agents.

Pros:
They have experience in Rip Hamilton and Tayshaun Prince. They have young talent like Jason Maxiell and Rodney Stuckey. Even without Rasheed and Iverson, the Detroit team is still better than Cleveland without LeBron.

Cons:
It’s Detroit. They have a history of championship teams, but I don’t think LeBron is attracted to landing in Detroit. Also Joe Dumars probably knows they aren’t likely to get LeBron and is aiming more towards Chris Bosh. Or maybe even Dwayne Wade or Amare Stoudamire.

Conclusion: I don’t see this one happening. It would take a little short of a miracle of situations for this to happen. Sorry, Detroit.

NEW JERSEY
Traded Jason Kidd and change for Devin Harris and change. Traded Richard Jefferson for Yi Jianlian and Bobby Simmons.

Pros: The relationship between LeBron James and Jay-Z is well-known to anyone who pays any attention to basketball. Will that be enough to lure LeBron over? Especially if they relocate to Brooklyn, which LeBron has said is his favorite borough, not Manhattan. They have a budding star in Devin Harris, whom James has complemented on different ocassions.

Cons: I think too much is being made of LBJ’s relationship with Jay-Z. That being said, New Jersey sucks. Vince Carter is close to being done, Yi Jianlian and Brook Lopez look like quality rotation guys at best. New Jersey probably won’t be in Brooklyn for a couple of years, either. Well, probably see Michael Redd here instead.

Conclusion:
Despite what many people think, I don’t see this one happening either. But they do have a much better chance than Detroit

CLEVELAND
Traded Larry Hughes, Drew Gooden, Cedric Simmons, and Shannon Brown for Ben Wallace and Joe Smith. Traded Donyell Marshall and Ira Newble for Delonte West and Wally Szczerbiak.

Pros:
It’s his hometown. LeBron grew up in Akron, about 30 minutes south of Cleveland. Many people think the Cavaliers are just one piece short of a title. Mo Williams did very well in the season, and Delonte West has shown what he is capable of doing. Gibson could have a bright future, and the Cavs have a synergy together that makes them better. LeBron is very close to his teammates. They had a very successful season this year, and look very close to being a championship team. Cleveland also has enough cap space to attract a major free agent. I here talk of Cleveland trying to land Shaq. Plus, Cleveland has never won anything. Nada. If LeBron were to bring a much needed title to the city of Cleveland, they might actually make him the King of Ohio. All jokes aside, LeBron could do something great by helping Cleveland win its first title, and bring hope and a sense of pride to the community.

Cons:
While people may say they are only a piece short, that is the same headline from last year after losing to Boston. They thought that had found that in Mo Williams, who played inconsistently, and at times just flat-out terribly, during the playoff run. After losing in the Finals to San Antonio, and then losing to Boston and Detriot in the playoffs, has LeBron had enough? Is Mike Brown really the coach he think can lead him to a Championship trophy after his seemingly absent display of coaching against the Magic in the Conference Finals? Or one of the most incompetent GMs in Danny Ferry? Take away LeBron from the Cavs, even with their connection, and the team is probably a sub .500 team in the weaker Eastern Conference. The teams big men are getting old, as is Wally, and Varejo will never be a star and definately never someone to contend with the likes of Dwight Howard, or even Kendrick Perkins. Even if they did bring Shaq on board, would James want to risk that liability. How many people have given Kobe grief for not winning it all without Shaq? Are the Cavs really only one piece away from being a championship team, or did the Magic expose the truth: that without LeBron the Cavs are nothing, and even with him cannot be a championship team because basketball is ultimately a team sport?

Conclusion:
I think this heavily depends on how next season ends. Depending on next season, LeBron may or may not stay in Cleveland. If Cleveland does win a championship next year, then the chance of James leaving is close to zero. However, if it ends in disappointment (and,
Oops, it didn’t put it all of my question.

My last team was New York.
which I think was the most likely case. Why? Pros: a flashy player in Nate Robinson and you’ve got David Lee and Al Harrington. Also who would you trust? Mike D’Antoni and Donnie Walsh or Mike Brown and Danny Ferry? Then you have the 7th pick who will most likely be Stephen Curry, who James is good friends with. Curry is also something nobody on the Cavs, including James is – a pure shooter who can create his own shot. With LeBron in the mix, think about that offensive fire power. Will it be too much for LBJ to resist? Without LeBron, I bet the Cavs would be worse than NY. Cons: The Knicks should have been better than 32-50… but they weren’t. Conclusion: Knicks look like they might land him.

Lukes Love Life answers:

NYK will offer him a 6 year contract worth $160 million… LeBron will take the next plane out and fly to NYC…

Ruth asks…

can you rectify what grammatical errors i have done in this paragraph?

We feel pity when we see students studying in Corporate colleges. Days scholars are involved in risk as well as Hostelier’s. Hostel resembles a prison. I remember the days of studying in Governament Schools. What a peaceful environment we had in those days in our schools!We had maintained good teacher-student relationship with our teacher’s. We also have gained knowledge in our schools too.
As a teacher i have also made my students’ future bright in thier career.If any of our old students came by in our way, they’ll greet us with so much love and affection.

But today…. students weigh the books just like hill trekkers hold the weight on thier back and going for hill trekking.When students complete thier SSLC and go for Intermediate education, they’ll get more busy by Eamcet Coaching. Institutes run after students for ranks.Parents fight for Seats in college.
In our education System, personality development,knowledge gathering is nill to the students.Everytime they put peer pressure on students to read more and more.To gain success in this compeition world, it’s must to take risk of studying for the whole day.Some corporate institutions are taking the advantage of Parent’s desire of thier kids career.

I have took this paragraph in a magazine and tried to translate it, so can you rectify what grammatical errors i have done in this paragraph?

Thanks in advance!

Lukes Love Life answers:

I am going to struggle a bit with this as in some places this doesn’t make sense.

We pity the students we see studying at Corporate Colleges (note: both words take a capital or both words take a lower case letter). Day scholars are at risk as well as Hostelers. (Note: This sentence makes no sense as we are not given any indication of what danger or why both are at risk) The Hostel resembles a prison. I remember the days of studying at Government Schools. What a peaceful environment we had in those days! (note: “in our schools” is unnecessary) We maintained good teacher-student relationships. We gained knowledge in our schools too!. As a teacher ! Have enhanced my pupils career prospects. When our old students meet us, they greet us with so much love and affection.

But today….students carry the weight of their books like hill trekkers carry their backpacks. (Sorry, I do not understand what you are trying to say in this next bit) Parents fight for places in college. In our education system, personal development and knowledge gathering means nothing to the students. All the time there is pressure on the students to read more and more. To be successfull in this competitive world. It is necessaryy to study all the time. Some companies are taking advantage of parents’ desires to see their children succeed.

I have noted what I do not understand. I would say that this is not a logical way for this paragraph to end, if you reorganise the sentence order it will read better.

Best wishes

Sharon asks…

What does this sentence mean?

When I read the following paragraph I couldn’t understand the last sentence well. What does “a separate rule book for each” mean? Please help me!

Successful couples “keep a clear separation of the roles they play in each relationship,” says Doug Wilder, president of Wilder Business Success Inc., a Jacksonville, Fla., coaching firm. “There is a separate rule book for each.”
Here is more of the context:

The Larsons draw boundaries among roles. At work, Mr. Larson handles finances, operations and outside sales, and Ms. Larson manages customer service and phone sales. At home, they step back into their marital roles and have their usual husband-and-wife conversations. “There is Janelle who is my wife, and Janelle who is my business partner,” Mr. Larson says. They hash out problems during long daily walks together with their dog.

Successful couples “keep a clear separation of the roles they play in each relationship,” says Doug Wilder, president of Wilder Business Success Inc., a Jacksonville, Fla., coaching firm. “There is a separate rule book for each.”

You may also find this article at: http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748704518904575365072712147354.html

Lukes Love Life answers:

It means there is inequality between them.
Like a rich man is given bail on a murder but a poor man is not.
- “A separate rule book for each”

David asks…

In your opinion what’s the best job for me?

Who am I? I’ve played sports all through my youth and college years. Read nearly all the classics, seen many movies, . Traveled Europe. Wrote a book of poems hopefully to be published this coming fall.

Considered River Guide. Counselor. Dean of English Dept. in a University. Park Service employment. Starting my own tubing company. Coach.

Fears-
not enough time to myself like I have right now.

boss trying to mold me into someone I’m don’t want to be.

Not finding a career that will cover health and benefits something we all need after college.

Not being the free spirited person I am due to my current relationship.

Losing the one person that has been good to me.

But, then not persuing my life.

A flood of answers would be nice, just to hear ideas I haven’t thought of.

Lukes Love Life answers:

The only job that meets those requirements: unemployed person.

Carol asks…

What is a good book to use for this project?

Ok so in my Honors English 10 class, our ***** of a teacher is requiring at least 6 sources for a research project. One must be a book….the topic I chose out of the ones available was “Should professional athletes be look upon as role models?”

My submitted response was “no” now I must explain why.
My reasons given were (3 required):
-A good percentage of highly-viewed sports players have claimed and proved to use steroids
-There are a number of athletes who display bad attitude towards coaches, teammates, and community
-Most athletes have trouble with sustaining a healthy relationship

So basically, I need a book (it cant be an encyclopedia) that will help support at least one of these reasons. Any suggestions?

The damn annotated bibliography’s due tomorow :(

Lukes Love Life answers:

A-Rod: The Many Lives of Alex Rodriguez – By Selena Roberts American Icon: The Fall of Roger Clemens – By Thompson, O’Keeffe, Vinton & Red The Rocket That Fell To Earth – By Jeff Pearlman Game of Shadows – By Lance Williams and Mark Fainaru-Wada Juicing The Game – By Howard Bryant Juiced – By Jose Canseco The Juice – By Will Carroll Love Me, Hate Me: Barry Bonds and the Making of an Antihero – By Jeff Pearlman The Cheater’s Guide to Baseball – By Greg Zumsteg Vindicated – By Jose Canseco Steroid Nation – By Shaun Assael Bash Brothers: A Legacy Subpoenaed – By Dale Tafoya Bases Loaded – By Kirk Radomski with David Fisher . -steroids

Kobe Bryant: The Game of His Life-relationships

You Cannot be Serious- bad attitude to teammates, coaches.

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Your Questions About Sexting Examples

Nancy asks…

Do you have any Sexting examples?

Over 18 only please!! Okay im going out of town, and want to send some sext to my hubbs. I never have and want to make him think of me while im gone. What are some good sext to send? Not pics.. im meaning.. Dirty talk.. descriptive. Thanks!

Lukes Love Life answers:

It won’t matter. He is having sex with you sister while you are gone. JK ;)

you must know what you hubby likes. Tell him you are horny and that you miss him, and tell him what he can expect what you get back. Be as much of a tease as possible. He will hate that but it will leave him thinking, and by the time you get home he will be desperate for you, and give you the best lovin you have ever had…lol

George asks…

super dirty sexting examples?

give me some EXTREMELY sexy sexting ideas 2 send 2 my boyfriend. hes amazing at it and i want 2 b better than him!!! be descriptive and i dont want 2 send pics but i want him 2 get super horny and turned on!!

Lukes Love Life answers:

Tell him it’s really hot in your room then say that your gonna take your clothes off and describe how your “taking off your clothes” Lying is okay(: it makes things more exciting!

Paul asks…

sexting examples? what would you do if i were there?

what a girl can say to a guy.
he says “what would you do to me if i were there?”
i say ……. what?

Lukes Love Life answers:

I say it sounds CRINGE! :p xx

Robert asks…

sexting examples please?

im a girl (:

my friend was like what are you wearing
so i responded shorts and tanktop (:
and he said take it off
and i said only for youuu ;)
and then he said what are you wearing under your shorts

Lukes Love Life answers:

Youtube

My Space

I wanna Google your Yahoo :)

Mary asks…

SEXTING EXAMPLES?/11/1!??!!?!!?

im a girl (:

my friend was like what are you wearing
so i responded shorts and tanktop (:
and he said take it off
and i said only for youuu ;)
and then he said what are you wearing under your shorts

Lukes Love Life answers:

Srry but u need to get a life. Because one that is not a question. And two if you do sexting then you have no respect for you or anyone else.

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Your Questions About Healthy Relationship Wheel

Donna asks…

is she still into me, should i stick with her?

I’m 18, i’ve been dating my girlfriend for a little over two years, and we’ve have a very healthy, consistent relationship. over the course of the past few months, ive been noticing her starting to branch out, talking to different people, making new friends. most importantly, guy friends. unfortunately i’m a bit of the jealous type, so i may have lost perspective on this issue. (which is precisely why i’m asking the world!)

we’ve talked about the fact that she’s talking to many more guys than usual a few times, and she always assures me that its nothing, she just likes talking to these people. but recently shes been doing the following:
- staying up every night until 3:30 or 4am instant messaging with this guy
- spending a solid 3 hours per day talking to him- she talks to him when she wakes up, after she gets home from whatever she does, and then at night
- we have a tradition of talking on the phone for half an hour or an hour every night, and now she’s finding ways to not do that anymore, saying ‘nah i’d rather watch tv’ and then i find out that she was really just talking to this guy online
- wherever i go, he always seems to be there! its weird, instead of my girlfriend and i inviting him to come to a movie, I got invited by my girlfriend and this guy to go see a movie. i feel like the third wheel!
- uhh, well we havent had much time lately for any intimacy to speak of.

however, as i said, i’m the jealous type. i tend to think and ponder and overanalyze situations. this guy is a fairly harmless individual, albeit the type that is SUPER friendly, really easy to talk to, and once you start talking to him, you CANNOT escape for a solid hour.

what do you think? this gives me so many headaches…

Lukes Love Life answers:

.Maybe the lack of intimacy is the problem.If you’re too busy elsewhere. She has to look elsewhere fr her kicks

Paul asks…

mah besfrenss happen to be going out &&…… advicee!!!?

me 2 bestfrenns are mah everythings. but it happens to be their going out. && sometimes it seems like they always want alone time, & come on, who likes to be the 3rd wheel? so i’ve tried hanging out with them less in school [10th grade] but then they get all butt hurt. & since they already had sex their always like on top of eachother && it buggs me. their relationship is healthy, their so attachedd! & yet their still both so young. but mah besfrenn is basically mah other half, i love her till death but i think their relationship might break us apart. what should i say to herrr? what should i do?? HELP ME!

Lukes Love Life answers:

Tell them what you feel and maybe they are going to understand and tell them you have feelings too. You need a friend to lean on too. If they did not understand that means your friendship is broken, it means you dont mean anything to them anymore. Leave them alone and find another friend to lean on….. And next time dont have two bestfriends that is a guy and a girl>_<. Goodluck!!!!!!!!!

Daniel asks…

mah besfrenns happen to be going out &&…..ADVICE!?

me 2 bestfrenns are mah everythings. but it happens to be their going out. && sometimes it seems like they always want alone time, & come on, who likes to be the 3rd wheel? so i’ve tried hanging out with them less in school [10th grade] but then they get all butt hurt. & since they already had sex their always like on top of eachother && it buggs me. their relationship is healthy, their so attachedd! & yet their still both so young. but mah besfrenn is basically mah other half, i love her till death but i think their relationship might break us apart. what should i say to herrr? what should i do?? HELP ME!

Lukes Love Life answers:

Accept reality and move on. Or you can wait for her to break up with him.

Ken asks…

My girlfriend broke up with recently and now she wants me to be her booty call. Is this healthy?

After being together for nearly 2 years and living together for a few months my g/f broke up with me and now she wants to have a sexual relationship with me only. We only been broken up for a little bit over a month and we already been sleeping together since last week. She told me not to read too much into it that it was just a sexual relationship and that the only reason why she wants me is because she feels comfortable with me. I still love her and is hard to be with her and not express my feelings. She also tells me that she is not sure what’s going to happen between us in the future, what is that mean? She asks me not to hold on to anything, but yet she can’t tell me that I don’t have a change with her at all in the future. I’m afraid that eventually she might meet someone new and fall for that person and eventually put me in the back burner and I dont’ want to get hurt. Should i continue to sleep with her and ride it out until the wheels fall out or call it quits?

Lukes Love Life answers:

You are probably setting yourself up for a fall. Until you are over the emotional aspect of that relationship, friends with benefits should not be an option.

She’s honest about what she wants and that she can’t make any guarantees with you, but it sounds like you are in it hoping she’ll come back to you (as a girlfriend). Not wise…

Either tell her you can’t do the sex-only thing (not until you are emotionally over her) or continue on but realize chances are high you’re going to get zapped when she meets someone she wants to date, and it’s like she’s broken up with you all over again.

Maria asks…

Am I stressed or bipolar or just moody?

I am 18 year old college girl in a healthy 1 year relationship. Ever since i stopped drinking alcohol excessively…my moods have been drastic. These mood swings have been going on for months now and are getting worse. My bf is my only friend i trust and open up to emotionally, but i have been hurting him with the moody outbursts saying words I dont mean. Some days I feel like crap, i just stay home all day. dont shower, stuff my face with food, and do NOT want to be around anyone. This goes on for a couple days and then one day I AM SO hyper, dancing in the middle of the street, laughing, talking sooo much, and interupting everyone, and i feel so amazing and good. Some days, its a mix of moods..up and down like a couple times. One moment im yelling at my boyfriend for something stupid and i take hold of his stering wheel and almost crash his car, the next i feel depressed and then hyper again. I also have alot of stress in my life with family. My dad is also very moody and an alcoholic and my mom was supposedly depressed/suicidal in the past(but they would never get help for their problems, they dont beleive in medicine and are paranoid) I feel so guilty for feeling this way bc i feel out of control. I am anxious most of the time too and sometimes i go shopping and spend alot to feel better temporary. I cant fall asleep at night cuz i have so much racing thoughts/stomach is anxious and i have dreams that stress me out like coming late to work. I also have a hard time concentrating/listening to people when they talk bc i feel like i have millions of random thoughts going to my head and i interrupt them cuz I NEED TO TALK. I feel very guilty sometimes for being like this. I regret the mean things i say bc i dont mean them/cant control them. I worry about alot of little unnecessary things. No one really notices this cuz i put on a happy face everywhere i go but it is efffecting me inside as well as my relationship. I dont trust alot of people or show my emotions to people except my bf. My parents put me down sometimes. I am also soo horny, more than my bf, sex “shuts me up” for a bit, but then i get depressed later anyway. Some days im extremely irritable that it triggers somethign inside me that gets ME SO MAD and annoyed at the person, like they did something horrible..and then i calm down later. Sometimes i am so hyper ppl thought i was on drugs :/
I am paranoid about getting any kind of help bc if my parents or someone found out they would think im crazy or just overreacting. but my bf urged me to do something about it. WTF is wrong with me? I just wanna be genuinely happy with myself. I hate these mood swings bc i end up hurting people. is this normal college student stress or moodiness? should i get help? idk. pls help. im confused. im scared.
I want to know how to manage this. I dont want to be diagnosed really. I dont want to go to therapy and be laughed at bc people have worse problems and i feel like im wasting time. Its like i WANT help, but I am paranoid about it. I just want to know how i can control this, it doesnt seem to be working for me though. And yes, theres alot of things that are going on that contribute me to act this way(hormones,stress,family, learned behavior,etc)
Well im seeing a school psychologist this week. I will be honest with her and hopefully i can cope with whatever i have. I need to be brave.. Btw i want to be a psychologist one day so i think helping myself if a good thing right? even though it might not be the BIGGESt problem…i need to help myself before i help others. Thanks for the answers, it gives me more reason to go talk to someone about it

Lukes Love Life answers:

Okay, I am not a doctor so I cannot diagnose you (nor can anyone else for that matter) over an internet forum. However, I suffer from bipolar disorder and the symptoms that you describe sound almost identical to myself at your age. And please heed this omen, it will only get worse. It sounds like what you are experiencing now is rapid cycling of hypomania and depression, sprinkled in with mixed episodes (i.e. The agitation, anger, hyperactivity). I am now 29 and I am medicated and feel better, for the most part that is ( I do have my ups and downs). But medication is certainly the way to go. I am on 1000 mg of depakote a day and it helps tremendously. No antipsychotics. I can now hold a job, have successful relationships, and have a healthy marriage. It did not make me gain weight, make me euphoric, change my personality, or change who I am as a person (i.e. The charming things about me, the quirks, etc.). The only reason that I mention the latter point is that I remember before I got medicated I was very worried about those things…I did NOT want to be a zombie. However, I do want to warn you that the medication may make you tired/sluggish for a few weeks. Don’t let this deter you, it will pass quickly.
I can tell you this, and this is a FACT not a guess, bipolar disorder is a PROGRESSIVE disease. You need to address it NOW. It will only get worse. Do not do what I did. I was diagnosed at 23, went on medication, went off medication, etc. Etc. I hurt a lot of people (my parents, my sisters, ex-boyfriends, friends), participated in risky sexual behavior, cheated on people, drank myself into an oblivion, the list goes on…. As for you saying you have issues with alcohol, that is very typical for people who suffer from bipolar disorder. I would try to control the ups and downs by getting drunk, which after the fact would cause depression and paranoia, and later turned into drug use. Also, as the disease progresses, the ups and downs get worse, the paranoia becomes unbelievable, and eventually you will have a full blown manic episode. Which, God help ya girl, is one of the most terrifying things you can imagine. My point in this is not to scare you, but to convince you that there is help out there and you need to go to a doctor NOW, not later. I know how terrifying the prospect is (you don’t want your personality to change, or facing the idea that in some way you/your brain is defective, etc. Etc….it’s all bullshit). Everyone has issues, and if they say they don’t they’re either lying, or in my opinion, very boring individuals.
As for you not wanting your parents and other people to know, they don’t have to. If you have insurance, even if it’s through your parents, your doctor cannot disclose information about your health to anyone (i.e. HIPA law). If you do not have insurance, google your local community mental health services board (it goes by county). They will set up an initial meeting with you and will give you instructions on what to bring (i.e. Identification, etc.). This is a government funded program set up to help individuals like yourself w/ psychological issues, problems, etc. And please, try not to be discouraged or ashamed. Bipolar disorder is totally manageable…you just have to manage it.
If you have any more questions about anything I’d be happy to answer. And best of luck to you.
Carla

And to the guy named “Grock” above. To say that you are an ignorant nitwit would be an understatement.

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