Chris asks…
IS THERE A SONG ABOUT A BREAKING UP WITH SOMEONE YOU LOVE AND NOW YOU FEEL LIKE KILLING YOURSELF?
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Lukes Love Life answers:
Going crazy by natalie
David asks…
whats a good tattoo to get after breaking up with someone you loved, and you still love but they dont love you
i just broke up with my gf after 2 and a half years and i wana get something like the ed hardy tattoo that says love kills slowly..i kinda want something that will show how much im like hurt by this break up =[
haha yeah i guess i get what your all telling me..thanks…but just wondering, lets say i really wanted to do it, what should i get ? im probably not gonna get one now, but if i did want one wut would u recomend
Lukes Love Life answers:
I seriously hope you are not really considering this. First of all, its not a very good idea in general. I would not advise anyone get a tattoo for someone they were with, much less someone they just broke up with. Think about it. Its way past borderline creepy…. I would be really creeped out if a guy did that. I know it feels bad now, but you’ll feel worse having a reminder of it with you forever.
Mary asks…
Why is breaking up with someone you love so hard to do?
It’s been almost 2 years now since I broke up with my girlfriend and I’m still finding it hard to move on. I have all kinds of feelings for her ranging from anger to deep sadness. Please, tell me, how do I let go and move on? I feel as if my life is stuck on neutral since we broke up. Is it true that only love can break a heart, and only love can mend it again?
Lukes Love Life answers:
Every human being mourns in a different way…and yes, you are mourning. Not the kind of mourning you do when someone dies, but at the end of every single thing in your life, be it a friendship, leaving an office, leaving school, etc. You will need time to mourn and prepare for the next stage. Some people do it quickly, some don’t, what I can tell you is to be patient, I went out with a guy for five years, broke up and then, after eight months fell in love with my best friend from school and married the guy.
Letting go is difficult, and it takes time, try not to call her, remove all the pictures and stuff that reminds you of her and take one day at a time. Try doing different things from those that you did with her and visit other places; enjoy your family and friends and focus on yourself.
Many things can break a heart, but that is only if you let them; its upto you to mend it. Believe in yourself and without knowing love will find you again. Good luck!
Richard asks…
How do you deal with breaking up with someone you love and have a child with?
Lukes Love Life answers:
I’m sorry you are going thru this. First just go slow..don’t jump into hanging with friends and finding new and exciting stuff to keep yourself busy. Give yourself time to get use to being alone. Make sure to keep in contact with the child…as much as you can..daily if possible. Since you say you love this person it’ll be more like a death than a separation so just give yourself plenty of space. I hope you have a lot of support from friends and family and with time it’ll be easier to move on and learn to be with someone that will understand what you have gone thru.
Charles asks…
can you love someone for years,break up, love someone else, and go back to the first love? even get married?
i was with someone for 8 years (from age 16) and we broke up, because i lied to him about my job (i wasn’t sure about the relationship because he didn;t want to move forward because we were still in college…i took a job at hooter’s to avoid him helping me with money) i founfd out i was pregnant 1 week after the break up. first he wanted to work things out (2 months after the break up), but changed his mind again after he found out i went on 1 date. for my daughters first year of life he paid all of my rent so that i could stay at home with her. he would stay at our place on weekends. we were still going to work on us. he said he still loved me. Abruptly things changed and i find out he has a girfriend. he had even been telling her he loved her and could not live without her. i find out i am pregnant with our second, but have decided to move accross country and let him go completely. he begs me to stay, move in with him and be a family.i year later things r great, but does he loveher
i am 100% sure he doesnt see her anymore. she spray painted his car when i first moved in. he is a great father… he takes care of us completely. we live in a beautiful home (one that i had picked out everything for to have it built before we broke up) and he treats me well. he constantly says that he doesn’t want any other man raising his children and wants me in his life. he goes to work and comes straight home everyday. doesn’t party drink nor smoke. is even going back to school to get his master’s, but i just still wonder if he still loves her or if he will love me more than he ever loved her. i saw an email that he had sent her when they were togeter and it said that he doesn’t want to be old and grey and telling his grand children that the woman he really lovesa (meaning her ) is with someone else. i can’t stop[ thinking about that
Lukes Love Life answers:
You can’t go back, period. You can try, but it will never be like the rose-colored picture in your mind.
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