
Charles asks…
how should i ask someone i dated(but was never in a relationship with) for dating advice?
we are really close now. I have moved on and want to make some changes with myself and I need to know how people perceive me so I can improve myself. how can I bring this conversation up? we are texting now =)

Lukes Love Life answers:
Explain to him exactly what you said to us. See if he feels comfortable sharing that info with you…

John asks…
Relationship advice for dating someone who has Herpes?
I have been talking to someone for a few months now. We both seem to like each other, so I tried to move our “friendship” to the next level with an attempt of a kiss. When I was saying bye I asked if I could kiss him & he told me that he had Herpes. It came as a total shock to me, but I still managed to thank him for letting me know. Later he showed me his medicine so I knew he was not lying, but for some reason I still can’t shake the feeling of rejection? I don’t know if he would have kissed me back if he didn’t have herpes? Can I even have a loving relationship with someone who has herpes, someone who I can’t even kiss?

Lukes Love Life answers:
If he has oral herpes, you’ve got nothing to worry. Just don’t kiss until his sore is completely healed.
If he has genital herpes… Avoid any sexual contact (kissing is allowed, though, unless he has oral herpes as well) when he has an outbreak. Always use protection when having sex. Make sure that he’s taking his medication daily… Or reconsider not moving your friendship to the next level.

Paul asks…
Relationship and dating advice?
There’s a 3 year difference between us, me being younger. He lives a province over but is visiting during winter break. We’ve liked each other since June and hung out once before, but nothing has happened. I know him through a friend, so we technically met over the internet, but we have a good friendship. We’re each others best friends.
It was reassured in a conversation a few days ago that he wanted something to happen between us. He said he regretted not kissing me when I left home after flying out to where he was.
I just wanted some tips with flirting, what to do when we’re together – alone or with friends, that kinda thing.
Btw, I don’t need sex tips lmao, I’m not ready for that.

Lukes Love Life answers:
Well, since you want him to know that you really do like him and want something to happen between you two… I’d say just smile a lot with some eye contact when you two are in the same room. If he says something funny, laugh.. Even if it wasn’t that funny. That really shows a guy that you “get the jokes” and shows that you’re a fun and easy to please kinda girl. If you two are alone, lie your head on his shoulder if he’s close. Guys love that. He’ll probably put his on yours and maybe try to grab your hand. If this happens, look up at him and he’ll for sure kiss you.

Richard asks…
Dating/relationship help!! could use some advice?. . .?
Well my last serious relationship seems like forever ago, and I would really like have a boyfriend again, but I am so picky! For some reason I’m like a little bit scared to be in a relationship, and I think it’s really held me back from letting guys get to know me, or approach me in that way. . . I’m just tired of being single man. Some people especially guys think that I’m just stuck up or prude since I’m not one of those girls who is always dating different guys, but they don’t understand that I just really have to like the guy for me to be interested in a relationship, and I’m picky.
So could you guys & females help with some advice or anything, just give me your opinions.
Thanks in advance!
I already posted a question like this but like no one answers!!!!
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Lukes Love Life answers:
Aww
well I’ll try my best to help
I see where you’re coming from, and it’s okay to have your standards/types.. But if you really want a boyfriend.. You need to let guys speak to you and get to know you. You can’t always immediately have a instant attraction or connection with someone, it can happen, but most of the time they grow on you or the feelings grow in time.. Cos you get to know him better. There are soooo many guys out there, and wouldn’t it be good to not miss out on chances? Doesn’t mean date every single guy cos I know you won’t do that, but just give them a chance by letting them talk to you or take you out as friends or whatever you’d like to see it as.
Just take it as it comes and make every guy an option, weigh out the pros and cons of each of them

George asks…
dating and relationship help/advice?
Okay so I been going on 3 dates with this amazing girl and we both like each other(got my first kiss from her on are 3 date) but shes not sure what we are…. she says we are dating now how long should I wait before asking her to be my girlfriend ?
any ideas or suggestion?

Lukes Love Life answers:
If you think she is also interested in being you girlfriend… Which it sounds like she is, since she considers you dating each other… Then wait until a time when you are alone and you really like her. Say something like, can I call you my girlfriend? Or, so.. Are we officially an item now? Something not cheesy but to the point and nice.
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