William asks…
WHO WANTS TO DO A MINI QUIZ ON DATING? =D?
1. What qualities do you wish to find in a partner?
2. What would be your biggest dealbreaker in a relationship?
3. What percentage of a persons attractiveness comes from their personality?
4. What would be your perfect first date?
5. How long into a relationship do you feel ready to have sex?
Lukes Love Life answers:
1) Trust, responsibility, good-natured, and a lover of all things related to being a nerd.
2) Her being snotty and rude. I can’t stand people who are always talking crap about others.
3) 65%
4) Movie, dinner, some drinks. I like to keep things friendly in the beginning.
5) When the mood comes up. Sometimes it might happen on the first day. Other times it could be weeks or even months into a relationship.
Helen asks…
Quiz about dating, kissing, bfs/gfs….!?
These are random questions about relationships which ive been thinking about so much and its driving me mad lol.
1. What age did you have your first bf/gf?
2. What age did you have your first kiss?
3. How long did your first remationship last?
4. Whats the most you usually do on your first date with someone? Just hold hands, simple kiss, makeout…?
5. What turns you on?
6. Are you a virgin? If not when did you loose your virginty?
7. With your bf/gf, how often do you meet up or chat face to face or text?
8. How long would you expect a teenage relationship (say 15 year olds) to last?
Thank youu so much!!! =)
Lukes Love Life answers:
1. 16
2. 16
3. It’s still going, 3 weeks
4. Hm, last couple of dates we’ve been kissing and making out
5. Him! When he holds me really close.
6. Yes
7. We text all day, chat once in awhile, and see each other about 3-4 times a week.
8. It depends, hm…from a couple of weeks to a few months. Maybe a year.
Charles asks…
fun quiz!!!!!!!!yayyyy!!!?=)?
relationship quiz:
1) personality traitss?(that you look for in a person)
2)ebony or ivory?
3)hot body or great personality?
4)the biggest age difference there can be in a relationship?
5)perfect date?
6)how to ask that special someone out?(eg.by phone etc)
thanks 4 all answers!!
x=)
Lukes Love Life answers:
1) honest
2) either or
3) both
4) 11 years
5) one that happened
6) in person
Nancy asks…
Which one of these best describes the person you are dating?
I found this fun dating quiz and wanted to share it with my friends on Y!A. So, which one of these best describes the kind of people you tend to date and why? Fun/easy 10 points for best answer!
The Victim: You know, the victim is the person who blames everyone else for why all their past relationships have failed and for why they are so miserable. Their radio is stuck on the “poor me” station all day so they play on your heart strings for sympathy and take advantage of your generosity. Attracts: The Victim attracts/dates other victims. Remedy: Realize that your past relationship failures were not the other person’s fault because you chose to date that person and you could have terminated the relationship and the misery at any time!
The Player: This guy or girl believes she is such a great lover she is too good for just one person. Players have no intention of committing and come in and out of your life like your heart is a revolving door. They resolve conflicts by ignoring them (or you) and never take responsibility for their actions. Attracts: The Player attracts just about anyone because he or she is very alluring and experienced at seduction. Remedy: There is nothing wrong with a little booty call but it is important to make sure your expectations are alike otherwise someone is going to get hurt.
The “Wounded shark” aka Man Eater: This guy/girl has been hurt is looking for revenge and WANTS to hurt someone so it might as well be you! They are more visible than most dating candidates because they change partners so frequently. Also, they have no fear of getting hurt because they are the ones who do the hurting. Attracts: The Victim and Chameleons. Remedy: Only time can heal this person. In nature the most dangerous animal is the one that has been hurt and a wounded predator is twice as dangerous! Involvement with this guy or girl only leads to heartbreak city!
The Chameleon: The chameleon is a guy/girl with low self esteem who tries to make herself into whatever you want her to be. He or she will promise to lose weight, stop smoking, make extreme life alterations or do whatever they have to if you’ll just give them a chance! Attracts: No one! Not even Chameleons like other Chameleons! But, Chameleons find everyone else attractive. Remedy: Chameleons are wrong for believing that they must contort themselves into something they are not to find love. Instead of wasting energy to become something they are not they should focus on being comfortable in their own skin.
Lukes Love Life answers:
Hi, Happy New Year.
This is a real thinker, LOL.
In some ways they all sound codependent. One can’t exist without some balance of another, or an opposite, like victims attract victims, maybe only to commiserate, but too, an assumed victim could be a player or shark in disguise? I have a saying about “Sharks” although I use a different animal. “You never satisfy a nasty dog by feeding it, but you sure let it know where the food source is.”
Fessing up, can be pretty tough, especially admitting stuff to ourselves.
Woe is me might be as hard to get through, and so often we let others influence how we feel about us, we forget what we maybe used to feel good in us. If we were all faultless, we might all be pretty boring, but who decides who lives in a glass house, and who others get to throw rocks?
Chameleons may be the most difficult. They have adapted to whatever, even if it doesn’t suit them, and maybe take on the color, shape, sense of anyone they glom onto? Knowing who we are might be the best way to know how we can or should be.
Sorry sweetie, if I went way off, but it is a very interesting Q. Thanks.
Dallas
Laura asks…
Jehovah’s Witness confused on dating?
Yesterday, i was on this Helen Fisher site for chemistry.com & it led me into signing-up & joining. A part of me wants to continue but another part of me wants to delete it. Then I started to ask myself why can’t I date? Everyone wants to be in love. To start off, I’m in a very very complex situation.
First off, I’m having bible studies (stage one) studying to be a Witness transitioning to one day getting baptized. This bible study experience has changed me a lot & made me a better person & also made me realize how much I love Jehovah. However, I am still human & never even had my first date. I’m 18 & will be 19 in september. For some cheesy reason, almost all my life I wanted to have a family of my own and be with someone who loved me. I guess it’s every girls dream. I have this life long plan that I have to be married at age 25, no later than 26 (if I’m planning my wedding). As a witness, you basically date to find a spouse. Well the young ones date too, I believe, but that’s not the point. Which means I have a good 7 years left. And this have nothing to do w/being a witness of why some people think is “stopping me”. I know I am able to date, but I analyzed like 10 reasons of why I can’t date right now that’s really bothering me:
1. I’m not old enough to be close to my chosen goal marriage age 25/26
2. I’m starting college to study nursing which will be time consuming.
3. A boy will cause distractions from school & life.
4. I want to get baptized.
5. After college, I’m planning to move to the UK & he probably can’t of don’t want to.
6. I don’t know if I still believe in love which made me go to chemistry.com to take that quiz.
7. I’m afraid of getting rejected by a guy of the relationship not working out right.
8. I have no experience & dating & relationships is so complicated.
So after all of this, I still have no set decision. What should I do?
Lukes Love Life answers:
Love is so unpredictable that you cannot just set a schedule of when you’ll do these things & expect to fulfil it. For instance, how will you feel at age 25 when you’ve still not met Mr Right? Will you settle for the first guy who shows any interest in you & fall into a loveless marriage just so your goal is accomplished?
My advice to you is to just enjoy your bible studies & improving your relationship with Jehovah & you’ll meet the right person when you’re ready. Just make sure that he loves Jehovah too
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