Your Questions About Healthy Relationship Test

According to the results of the Strange Situation test, what is the relationship between maternal attachment?

Select one.
A.Securely attached babies generally struggle to overcome the maternal dependencies created in early childhood.
B.Securely attached babies generally grow to be independent, but more vulnerable to the effects of stress.
C.Securely attached babies generally grow to be adults who are capable of handling stressful situations in a healthy way.
D.Securely attached babies generally have a healthy maternal relationship, but struggle with their paternal ties.

How do you define a mature healthy loving relationship?

We are all human beings who are subject to jealousy, anger, frustration, happiness, sadness, occasional evil thought.
Just wondering how do you define a “healthy mature relationship” between men and women. I have been taught in a healthy mature relationship, there should be no jealousy, no mind games, no testing, no threatens of breaking ups, no fights, no arguments. Just mutual respect and understanding.
What’s your definitely of mature healthy loving relationship?

Dating and Relationship test, How experienced are you?

Ok some of the questions are your opinions.

1. Why is it bad to take a girl/guy out to the movies at the 1st date?

2. Why is arguing and fighting in a relationship healthy and normal?

3. How many dates should you go with that person before you guys can commit into a monogamous relationship(aka bf and gf)?
a)1 b) 10 c)30 d) No idea

4. Warming up the girl’s heart will warm up the ____?

5. Starting a ______ can lead to a good relationship?

6. Having _____ in the first date can mess up the relationship?

Thx
1. Because you want to know the person on the first date, going to the movies is not going to stir up the conversations. Thats why the first date is always important, if you mess it up….Good luck.

2. Well this is not rocket science, but if you ask married couples, your parents, your grand parents, they will say the same thing, which is “they are trying to work things out”. People these days are sometimes dumb, because the way they do it, its 1 fight= break up.

3) It really depends between you guys, but relationship expert’s say its 10.

4) Bed. For example, if you buy your gf a box of chocolate after not seeing for a week, you will probably get a bj. Its not rocket science

5) Friendship. If you want to take things slow, friendship is a goodway to start.

6) Sex. Why? Well because then both of the people will think they were just played, and other stuff, yeah its just bad. Its not rocket science.

What is the absolute WORST thing you can do on a first date?

What is the absolute WORST thing you can do on a first date? Yeah, killing your date is bad, but that’s not the right answer, LOL! There is actually ONE right answer to this question as it pertains to progressing into a healthy relationship so test your dating knowledge and give it a shot!

Have fun!

Oh, star this question so your friends and contacts can take a whack at it!

How do I have healthy intimacy in my life to replace this toxic relationship?

I’m 23/f and moved in with a 42 year old Indian guy 6 months ago. I was desperate for a place to live and I found him off craiglist. I payed rent to him even though we had a sexual relationship. We developed a good friendship and have much of the same interests. 2 weeks after I moved in we started a sexual relationship. From the start of the relationship, he has said to me he feels bad and that he feels like he’s taking advantage of me. During the 6 months, he loved touching and holding me, and he loved the cuddling as much as the sex. He has said to me many times how lonely he is and basically has told me that he wants the touching and holding more than anything else. Throughout the 6 months, we have always said to each other we would stop having sex (because we were both becoming somewhat addicted). Plus, we both knew the relationship wasn’t going to go anywhere. Although, he always tried to make sure we have an emotional connection, and not just physical.
There was an incident a couple months ago where we were walking down the street arguing about something ( I don’t even remember what) and he pushed me. After he pushed me, he blamed me, saying that I had somehow wanted to be pushed. He also apologized saying that he sometimes can’t control himself.
A couple weeks ago, he had an STI scare, which turned out to be a urinary tract infection. However, he blamed me (even before he got the test results) saying that I had given it to him. He also had me thinking that I really did give him an STD, even though I know for sure I didn’t. He threatened to beat me up and threatened to sue me for giving him an STD. I was so pissed, I stopped talking to him. After he got the results back, he apologized, saying that he was yelling at me trying to get me to admit to sleeping with someone else. He said he wanted to see my reaction. I told him that threatening to beat me up was unacceptable. He said he was just kidding and that threatening to beat me up is the only way I will learn. He also said that his threats show he can become emotionally distant from the people that he cares about. He says he does not want to hurt me in the future and that perhaps we should not see each other anymore.
A couple times I have brought up to him that I think we should move on from eachother because its not a healthy relationship. He says that we should still remain friends and not have sex anymore. He says that he is concerned that I could get emotionally attached and doesn’t want to emotionally hurt me. He keeps on insisting that he wants a friendship with me, without sex.
What should I do?
I moved out of his place about 2 months ago, and he has been coming to my place (a couple times uninvited) when I didn’t return his calls, he just showed up. I should never have let him know where I live.
He has even suggested to me that I should see a therapist about our relationship andn talk to the therapist about whether the relationship will hurt me.
He says if I see a therapist, he would not feel so guilty. He also says that I should date and find someone my own age and be in a loving relationship. Yet he says, even if I date other people, he still wants to be friends with me. He claims he cares about me as a friend.
Last night, we had an argument at my place. He was really drunk and started sobbing. He said that he thinks I believe he’s trying to hurt me and how he always ends up hurting people and that he doesn’t want me to become attached and emotionally hurt me. He ended up leaving around 2 in the morning after I told him to leave.
He spent Christmas with my family because he basically invited myself saying he would be lonely on Christmas.
Now I’m thinking it was a huge mistake to have invited him to spend Christmas with my family.
I want to break off this relationship, yet I invited him for the holidays. Not very smart

It’s like I love his affection so much, I want the relationship to feel wanted