Your Questions About New Relationship Advice For Women From Men

I sort of need a little guy advice, from men and women preferably..?

Well, I recently finished my freshman year in college. While living in the dorms I made many new friends, and there was this one guy that I thought was pretty attractive, but never really associated with. Towards the end of the year we met up at a party, and sort of began a friendship. Unfortunately, it is now summer and we are away from eachother until we go back to school in August.We text everyday, I wake up each morning with a “Good morning beautiful! ” text, or something along the lines. He usually responds to texts pretty fast, unless at work or busy. He talks to me while he is with his friends, text and once on the phone. He sends smiley faces at the end of almost every text, and always throws in a “cutie”, “hot stuff”, “sweetheart” or “love” in his sentences.

I would really appreciate some feedback, I realize that this was nearly a novel, but I am just a confused girl who really needs some advice on a situation.

I know that I be myself to him, but the last guy that I had this type of thing with, just randomly stopped talking to me one day, and I would be crushed if that happened with this one guy now. So, do you think that he is actually interested? In a relationship type deal, not a hook up. By the way, for the 2 or so months we have been talking, he has not said one thing sexual to me, but I don’t want that to change when we get back to school.

AH! any advice will help greatly, thank you so much!

Thank you to those who have responded, your advice is giving me a little more confidence in this situation
I do want to add that we talk on the phone at night, unless we are too tired. We both work full time, and sometimes just want to fall asleep rather than talk on the phone, but when we do talk, we talk for hours without even noticing!

I need some opinions/advice. Women and Men. This gonna be a bit long I will try not to go to crazy.?

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years (almost 4 in August). We have our difficulties but we really do love each other, have gotten through the bad times, and had many good ones in between. This is my problem. I know that when people fight “They say things that they don’t mean” When I argue with him (or anyone for that matter) I do not start name calling unless my patience with being called names by the other persons verbal insults is gone it takes a lot to get me with that. I think that name-calling and just plain mean insults are horrible and they make you feel even more horrible. I freely admit that I can be moody sometimes and maybe during those times I inadvertently push his buttons. I have a bad relationship with my father. One thing he did really bothered me and that was name-calling; The “B” word the “C” (which to me is just as low as you can get). He knows how much name-calling hurts me to no end. I have explained how intense my dads temper was. He never hit me but I think I would have rather a slap now and then instead of my father calling me a “C” or better a “C” just like my mother. Yet when we fight and he loses his temper he gets NASTY and calls me F**K**G “B” or F**k**G “C”. He even calls me a “Douchbag”. Asks me if I am “Dumb” or stupid. Just mean and he know it. When he does this, it’s as if I get the wind knocked out of me. And he knows it and he keeps saying even screaming them 4inches from my ear. At this point, I am so upset that I either get very angry and yell and call a name back or most of the time just turn and walk away and get very upset. Another problem is we live together and I moved into his house when he gets angry enough he tells me to leave. It just kills me when he says that because I feel like I have no home. I used to be able to go to the house that I grew up in but it was recently sold and my mother and stepfather built a new house but they have a bad marriage and are constantly fighting and so many issues I would go nuts. I would need a place to stay until I could get at least enough money and find a place. Marriage is an issue with us because I am so ready to take that next step with him so we can begin to build more of a life together and although he always talks about the future with me in it. But he won’t take the final step. He tells me to be patient but I can only be so patient (especially when he showed me a picture of a ring and asked me if I liked it). What do you guys and girls think of the name calling etc.? I know I have just painted a mean person but he is really not he is sweet and loving and awesome person to be with 90% of the time. But when he gets mad whether he is aggravated with me or something else in his life he takes it too far and I feel so alone and I don’t know what to do. He says that if I am acting like a “B” or a “C” its because I am being one so he is gonna tell me….I think fighting should be more about discussing the problem (even if your yelling) and less insults and names. He hardly ever apologizes or admits he was wrong it always ends up being my fault that ‘pushed him to that point”. Sometimes I can’t believe my ears that the person who “Loves me and would do anything for me” could be so hurtful. All opinions welcome. Thank you for reading.
I also want to add that I think that I am a great girlfriend I make his lunch everyday. I make his dinner every night I take care of him. He doesn’t ask I just do because thats my nature. Again, I am not perfect and I know it’s not 100% him that causes fights to escalate but I can admit it he never does. It always seems to be me that is the “Problem”

I Need Men’s Clothing Advice (Everyone please help, ex. men and women)?

I was looking for some advice on men‘s fashion. Can someone please tell me where is the best place online to buy mens clothes? Also where is the best place to get advice on what is hot right now and stuff? I would really like a cool website to shop and like a blog or something for advice or possibly a place to go with both. I am looking to go with a new style since I am still a young man, 20-30, and am recently divorced, just came out of a 8 year relationship with alot of hurt, and would like to be intune with the in stuff. I have been out of the dating and single life for quite sometime now and feel really awkward trying to get back into it. Please be as thorough as possible and I would really like to know where to go and look for info, where to shop, and how to stay in with the current trends. I am not looking to spend a hell of alot of money but I know there are many places that have the coolest and have clothes that are expensive and not so expensive. I am just trying to find out how everyone gets there advice and where they all go to stay “cool” so I myself can do the same while also being able to be attractive to women. I would love info from both men and women alike so I can know what to do. The style is not important because I am looking for everything from casual, to designer, to going out, and everything in between. Thanks for your info in advance….. A
Also, maybe a little bit about myself can help with everyones information. I am a white male. I am 28 years old. I live in Louisiana. Enjoy going out to clubs, bars, etc. Love music, rock, rap. Love sports like MMA and football and stuff. Drive a Dodge Charger SRT8. Tend to try to attract the 18-28 year old females. I hope this all helps. Thank you all gain…. A

I need more advice from Men about Men!?

I asked earlier in the week about this same guy, but i’m hoping to get more advice. Women are good, but i’d really like guys to answer since… well you might be able to know what is going through his head.
Something goofy happened the morning after he made a move by holding my hand and snuggling me. Someone got ahold of his phone and texted me horrible things, and i think it was his Ex Girlfriend. That night when he called me he wouldn’t tell me who it was, and even though it was upsetting, he didn’t seem to want to make it right, and he told me to just drop it and stop worrying about it, and he just acted really strange. Then he told me he likes me as a friend and he is by no means ready for another relationship. I told him i’d never pressure him into a relationship, and i’m cool with being friends. (I am, but i am totally smitten with this guy)
Here it is wednesday, i haven’t heard from him, and I feel like … he is running from me. What should i do? Based on my experience with him, i know he’s not appalled by me, i know he likes me, even if it just a friend, but why do i have to go through this? What should i do? I know that the best idea is to wait it out, and give him space. But maybe someone can just shed some light, or a similar experience?
Before i burrow myself into a hole and give up completely on dating. My spirit is breaking more and more with every guy who seems legitimate, just to find a new way to let me down.
But i really feel a future with this one. And that upsets me big time.

A question for the men, Sorry women but I need a mans advice on this one?

I have been talking to this guy for a few months and about three weeks ago we went from being friends to Friends with benefits after we slept together. He said he wanted this to be an ongoing thing and we both decided that we didnt want a relationship at this point in our lives because he is busy with work and school, and im still trying to work on me and my past relationship issues. We dont have each others cell numbers and only communicate thru IMs, he messages me everyday even if it is just to say hi and ask how I am doing. He even sends me a message if he knows he may not be able to talk to me that day like when he goes on a fishing trip and even still he usually messages me when he gets home. He tells me how much he wants to see me but then never does, he always says he has to work late, or study, or has something else that he cant possibly get out of. We only slept together the one time and even though he tells me it was awesome and cant wait until we do it again and until im (insert sexual act here lol) Im just not sure if he only does this so he doesnt hurt my feelings by saying he isnt into me. I have a tendancy to over analyze everthing which is what I am doing now but cant help it. So guys what do you think? Is he really just busy or is this a sweet way of being rejected? Would a man take the time out of his day everyday for the last month to message me and tell me all this stuff just to not hurt my feelings? I know this sounds crazy but I need to know. Also do you think that something that starts as Friends with benefits can evolve into a relationship or do you think if he was ready he would see me as to easy and go look for a new girl to start something meaningful?