Susan asks…
Blog question?
Is there any free blog site, where i can organize my post by type of post.
I explain myself in my current blog:
http://holygsroom.blogspot.com/
I write about my relationship with God, my hobby of breeding fishes. and my rehab center for orquids. i want to be able to organize by this three topics.
Lukes Love Life answers:
List of Free Blog Provider: http://www.blogadr.com/directory/freeblogs/
Free Blog Submission: http://www.blogadr.com/addablog.html
Ken asks…
Long Distance Relationship Advice.?
My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months. We are in a long distance relationship, she lives in Washington I live In NY. We met online on a blog site..instantly connected and had so many things in common and fell madly in love. We met each other in person over a month ago and things went great. She stayed for about two weeks..but after I saw her leave for home I just got so depressed and everything and now it just seems going back to Skype and the telephone its harder. We have been fighting a lot lately and I have been having these doubts that it won’t be the same as we first saw each other a month ago.
I plan on going up there at the end of the month I just don’t want to keep arguing..and we usually make up in the same day but its just taking a toll on both of us emotionally. I love her so much and I want to be with her I just want some advice on how to keep a distance relationship going and how I can get rid of these doubts I am having?
Also how to deal with jealousy, I have real bad jealousy issues and its not like I don’t trust her..I just don’t trust other people plus they get to see her all the time. Please I want to keep this going. Thank you!
I meant at the end of the year not the end of the month..sorry I know people hate reading all this shit.
Lukes Love Life answers:
I’m kinda in the same situation. Yeah I’ve noticed myself, after a while people in long distance relationships do start fighting a lot. ( hmm or is that just me? ) First of all yeah it’s the trust issue, and if you fight so much you probably are both very stubborn. And uh think of it this way if you wouldn’t care you wouldn’t fight so much? Yeah that probably wont make you feel any better… You should find a way to be together or move if it’s possible and if you really love each other and wanna take this seriously. Long distance is really stressful and hard to deal with, if you manage to get over it your set. Good luck
Steven asks…
What would be the typical reaction of a bf to your exaggerated relationship status on facebook/myspace/etc?
I hear stories all the time about girlfriends/boyfriends that are angry because they discover their partner’s myspace/facebook/blog site and see them designated as “single”. But what if the opposite occurred?…i.e., a partner designated his/her status to be MORE serious that it is, such as putting “engaged” or “married” when in fact he/she is only “in a relationship“?
From experience — or from a male perspective — what is the typical male reaction to this? Does the typical male get as angry and bothered by his girlfriend’s false “engaged” status as he would by her maintaining her site status as “single”? Could a girlfriend falsely putting “engaged” scare her boyfriend away? Or on the flip side, could this make a guy realize that she wants to be more serious, and actually help things along? Curious for feedback.
“Just a gal”, very good points; thank you. However, in this situation it involves a girlfriend who is eager–almost obsessive–about wanting to get married and make babies. She’s nagged him about this before. Her middle-aged, never-been-married-before-and-no-kids boyfriend is very much dragging his feet on the issue. And now that she is on facebook, she’s able to see that the majority of her old high school + college classmates are married, have kids, and/or are engaged. So it is probable that she’s falsely putting “engaged” because she wishes she too her engaged, and she’s too embarrassed to look “behind” her age group with this issue. Does that change things at all?
Lukes Love Life answers:
Most likely if she is putting engaged or married when she is not, it is because she doesnt want a bunch of guys hitting on her. She has a boyfriend, and by making it appear more serious she is telling other people with dating intentions to stay away…she’s taken. You should be flattered, not mad at her. By just putting boyfriend/girlfriend, some people think they are not really “taken” and go and see if they can steal someone away. But engaged/married will put the brakes on most ppl.
Dont be offended.
Linda asks…
What does it mean? (not relationship)?
i left a comment on a blog site saying: heyya, omg body too die for and he replied so urs bbz u ayt? … i don’t want to sound thick too ask him but what is ayt? its supposed too mean are you there, but that doesn’t make sense? help pleaseee lol
haha omg yeah, haha! thanks
Lukes Love Life answers:
It means “aii’t.”‘
Like the ghetto version of ‘all right’.
John asks…
What tips can you offer parents of kids who are victims of bullying?
Read more:
- The truth about bullying
http://ca.lifestyle.yahoo.com/family-relationships/blog/anndouglas/162/the-truth-about-bullying
- Youth-run Web site connects victims of bullying
http://ca.lifestyle.yahoo.com/family-relationships/articles/kids-stuff/cp/home_family-youth-run_website_offers_advice_connects_victims_of_bullying
- Back-to-school street smarts
http://ca.lifestyle.yahoo.com/family-relationships/articles/parenting/anndouglas/kids-back-to-school_street_smarts
Lukes Love Life answers:
Confront the bully’s parents.
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