Your Questions About Relationship Problems Forum

George asks…

A little bit confused with fiance, baby etcccc?

Hey, I put this in the Relationship forum too, but I thought maybe mums out there could give me advice. Thanks :)

So, this might end up being really long, but oh well, sorry to bore you if it does, if not, then awesome.

I am having relationship problems to put it simply. We have a 11 month old daughter, we have been together for 5 years. Lately, he seems to be always going out doing things, like going to the speedway on the weekend, going fishing etc. I am always stuck at home, doing nothing, I mean I LOVE being a stay at home mum, but there is only so much baby talk I can take.

I never leave the house, ever. Because one, I don’t leave my daughter with a sitter, and I never get the chance to have me time because my fiance is either working or tired or out fishing.

I don’t know if I am being childish with this, but I always try and talk to him about our problems, and he thinks im being silly, and he always says ‘I don’t know what to say.’ ‘What am I meant to say.’ He came home yesterday and went straight to his computer, I didn’t get a hello or anything..

I just don’t know what to do anymore.

I don’t know if its me, and I don’t even know why I came here to ask a question =|
I forgot to add:
Everytime I plan to do something, he always thinks up for an excuse to stay home. Like today for example, we had made plans that I drive him to work and we go to the bank before hand. But apparently he was running late, yet he still had 30 minutes to get to work, and its only down the road.. I am just so confused, maybe I am thinking to much about it..

Lukes Love Life answers:

Honey, i hear you.
I am a stay at home mom to a beautiful 6 month old baby boy :) he’s my world. My fiance works 2 jobs, so i can stay home.
We’ve had our issues from the get go. He’s a gamer. He does the same things like coming home and going right to the computer and is there till he goes to bed.
I tell him that i’m getting cabin fever. DESPERATELY!
I, too, love my my son and love being a stay at home mom but you need to talk to someone who can hold up a conversation lol.
A few of my friends have babies so i usually go on play date.

I don’t really get what your question is though..
All i can say is you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. When he does come home from work tell him : you stay home with little one tonight, i’m going out! And just go with your friends or go by yourself.
My guy listened to me after i threatened to move out with our son to live with my mother. He doesn’t want that obviously and neither do i. I was so fed up with being taken for granted. Cause if it wasn’t for us they would have to stay home! And they wouldn’t have food to eat, a clean house, a happy baby, and clean freakin underwear!!.

Hang in there and just talk to him and tell him to shut up and listen
~ xo ~

Sharon asks…

Have you check out the marriage and divorce forum?

I don’t want to rain on your parade, but have you check how many newly weds are having problems? don’t you think you should check and see if you can detect any red flags in your relationship?
why did I asked this question? just trying to help you young kids to maybe wait a bit longer! If there is love then why rush?
Melouofs,

I’m sorry honey but you are the one being negative. I just trying to help you. I’m happy in my marriage thank you very much!

Lukes Love Life answers:

I hope that most women on here do! It does provide insight for those who especially are young, and the problems that can arise for those who haven’t dated long enough to know their guy well enough – or for those who expect their guy to change just because he gets married.

Jenny asks…

Weight gain in a relationship is a sign of “direspect toward your mate”?

Question inspired by a couple of posters in this forum.

So you really think that if a person gains weight they are disrespecting their significant other?

There are a lot of reasons why someone might gain weight…pregnancy, age, thyroid problems, physical disability, lack of exercise, and so forth….how can you attribute weight gain to disrespect for your partner?

Isn’t that a rather selfish point of view? Narcissistic, even?
Does it really always have to be about you?
“Disrespect” sorry for the typo.

Lukes Love Life answers:

I agree with you 100%…Your partner is still her/his own person. Nobody has ownership over another person’s body and there should be no personal disrespect taken if your partner goes through weight change. Some of your honey’s physical attraction helped to get your attention – but true love goes beyond that. I would love my wife even if she became quadriplegic. I guess there’s still lots of people out there who are chiefly concerned with sexual atttraction in relation to their partners bodies in their relationships….I’m not that shallow and neither is my love for my wife.

Carol asks…

Do you want advice on just want to brag on your relationship, or want to meet other’s, then come join us?

http://www.groups.yahoo.com/group/Looking4thatspecialsomeone
This is a group for straight males and females who are seeking companionship, love, and possibly a permanent relationship. If you are into anything other than straight relationships, this is not the place for you. Note: Due to the fact that we may have members in the group that don’t understand the preceding, all messages will be closely monitored.

The reason I am starting this new group for other’s to possibly meet
new people.

This group is meant for you if people:

1)IF you are facing problems in relationship
2)If you are seeking your soul mate
3)If you think you can advice others
4)If you are seeking tips about pleasing your bf/gf

This group will be moderated and I assure you that it will
be one of the best ever groups where everyone can interact with each
other without any kind of hindrance..

PLEASE NOTE THAT THIS GROUP WILL NOT HAVE ANY ADULT CONTENT BUT TO
SHARE FEELING KNOWN AS LOVE & TO SEEK ADVICE IN THAT MATTER.

SO you can have genuine people here looking for making friendship
with you, and who knows, you may find your soulmate here.

Suggestions are most welcome.

We also understand that some members would like to have their partner back. This is a forum for some members who want to save their relationships and stop their breakup, separation, or divorce. Breaking up doesn’t always have to mean it’s over for good. We invite you to join us and exchange support, ideas, and encouragemnt with others who know how it feels to be in love.

Now in closing this is a great group for serious people looking for love and long term relationships,so get a pic and upload and start posting messages. Tell us a little something about you, and what you are looking for in a life partner. This group is now being created for all of you, I really hope you enjoy this group.

Lukes Love Life answers:

No thanks

Paul asks…

I need a forum or chat room for relationships. I’m dealing with alot right now and have no friends to talk to

I am having alot of problems in my relationship right now. I have no friends where I live and no family support. I feel like I’m going to go insane if I don’t find someone or somewhere to network and talk. Any advice is appreciated!

Lukes Love Life answers:

I will give you advice, but beware it may not be what you want to hear, but it will be honest and dealt with your best interest at hand.

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