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Relationship Trouble? Advice/Help needed!?

Ok, First off don’t post if your not gonna answer my question please no ignorance.

Anyways, Im in Highschool and play varsity soccer, and i have recently just got together with this girl (Beautiful Hawaiian Girl) and to me she’s someone i look to chill with and hopefully can have a long relationship with. Well we have been talking for like 3 month and now going out for a week yes i know its not much time, but i want to make this thing work. Anyways she runs track and i am currently playing soccer for my club team outside of school and spending time during the weekends is a pain due to her track meets on saturday and my soccer games, this i think is somewhat of a problem with are developing relationship that we don’t spend much time outside of school. Anyways the girl knows i wouldn’t cheat on her because thats not in my nature to be a Dog, and the girl i know likes me because she had liked me just waited for me to ask her which happen to be at the beginning of this week. Now that we are together ill walk her to class and stuff, but conversation seems short and it likes i don’t know what to say and this is the first time i’ve done this because i’m a person who usually has something to always talk about and really random, funny, and just fun to be around. Then when i’m with her it’s like blah blah blah…………………….blah blah and there will be like long pauses in are conversation, then just the whole school thing sikes me out like im scared to hold her hand and do this yet i want to just i dont want to make her feel uncomfortable, but im slowly pullng myself together on that problem just some loser kids ruined the mood because they were in my ear trying to coach me like a kid, but this is the first time i’ve had a girlfriend and choked up like this so im open to things because i just need some words of advice and most likely will fix this. The girl has somewhat the same personility as me we both are outgoing and goofy just theres a kink in the system.

relationship trouble. advice?

well im gonna be a junior in high school and ive had a couple of girlfriends before but i dont date often. but anyways, ive always kinda had a problem in my relationships. it starts out with me really liking a girl and so i do lots of romantic stuff, flirt a lot, and talk on the phone a lot. but this only lasts for like a month and i feel like its getting old. and because im so caught up in getting her to like me the first couple of weeks, what am i supposed to do after were going out. cuz i know it gets akward when u start sending roses everyday or something like that. so i guess im saying im not exactly sure where to go from there. any advice works for me. best answer ten points.

Relationship trouble-Advice Needed?

m 17 (18 on the last week of November) and I am very in love with my boyfriend. The problem with everyone else is that he is 45 (I’m living with my parents and am still very much in high school). He is really sweet and appreciates me for who I am, the second problem is that his niece turned 16 (in February) and she hates my guts. My friends do not support my decision and my parents do not approve of our relationship in the slightest (my dad who is 50 has his face grow hard and his eyes get red whenever i have been on a date with him). Furthermore he has proposed to me and I fear that I have rushed into things As I finish high school next year he has set a date just after my graduation. I do not wish to get married yet as I would like to see more of the world (gap year) and his behavior has changed drastically (I let him know of my views). When I last saw him recently, he labeled me as a little hussy and checks my Facebook and mobile phone to see if I am contacting boys. At one stage he even locked me in his house against my will to prove myself (if i really love him), This I do with all my heart and I can not stand to be apart from him, but I would like to become a self reliant, self dependent woman before I can commit myself to a relationship. And his threats (such has slapping some sense into me) are becoming unacceptable. How can I deal with all this?

Relationship trouble, advice needed please?

I got dumped on Sat I was dating a guy for 8 months. I had past problems with men before so I would bring those feelings up and would start stupid fights with him cos I was paranoid over being hurt. On sat I walked out over another stupid thing and when I went back he said that it was over. He didn’t give any reason to why. I keep asking him and he said he wants to be alone and that our relationship was meant to be fun /good times. But the thing is he was the one would who started the whole love thing and presents, He even told his parents that I was the one!He’s really stubborn.
He wont even answer his phone to me. Im confused Should I leave him go?

Some serious relationship trouble…advice needed.?

Hey everyone,

So I’ve been going out with my boyfriend (let’s call him’ Jeff’) for a little over a year. We met in college, and both of us are still full time students. We have been a great couple – I get along amazingly with his friends, he’s super sweet, yada yada. At first, I was afraid that he was too clingy. He wanted to spend lots of time with me, but I was in need of alone time and friend time, which he understood. After about 6 months we exchanged ‘I love yous’.

Fast forward to the next semester. I had some really hard roommate issues, so I started spending more time at his place. Eventually, it was like I had moved in with him. I knew in my gut that it wasn’t the right thing to do so soon in the relationship, but he insisted that it was okay whenever I brought it up. Then, the stress of finals hit us…We both have really rigorous majors, but I have to say he has to work 10x harder than I do at getting good grades. In any case, we got on each other’s nerves. Big time. I felt like I really wanted to spend quality time with him – because despite being together often, we were always studying or with friends, and never really together. He agreed, but for a few weeks nothing changed.

At this point I was getting really frustrated, and I let him know it. He then informed me that he thought that the reason why we were at each other so much was because I had moved in – and that he hadn’t been ready for that kind of step in our relationship. I was surprised, annoyed, and extremely hurt – especially considering I had spent so much time making sure it was ok if I basically moved into his place. He did, however, beg me to stick around while he figured out how to deal with his school stress more appropriately. So now, I have packed up all my stuff and have to live with my horrible roommates until the end of the month when our lease is up. He gets to stay at his place and relax while I stress out here. Sometimes he calls and seems upset when I don’t want to come over and hang out – but then if I call to ask if he wants to do something he says no.

So I guess the question is – is it time for me to move on? Time for a break? What do you think? Please help – I love this guy, and I don’t know what to do..