
Maria asks…
adolescent psychosis? HELP!?
Sometimes I believe things that are just out of the ordinary, one time I just cried and worried because I thought the government was tapping my phone lines.
I thought I blew up Jupiter (dream) and that they just sent me back in time for me to forget about it.
I’ll think life is a test and I was put here to be tested, I have no remorse whatsoever for anything I do but I do fear consequences. and think I’m more intelligent than anyone on this earth.
stuff like that
I’m having nightmares and just twitching right when I’m about to fall asleep, in school and home.
Sometimes I’ll wake up and just have a panic attack and run next to my door like there’s going to be devastating earthquakes or something. (anxiety disorders run in my family, idk if i have it or not)
I see constant minor illusions (could just be interpretations) like I’ll see a shadow but no one else did.
or I’ll think a shadow is actually a cat
my uncle has schizophrenia but we believe it was from the hard drugs he did
I also kind of change personalities every day, I could be nice or I could be a total jerk.
read the lower posts to figure out what I am
I’m 14 years old
I went through puberty very early
I clean shave and pamper myself even though I’m completely heterosexual
(trying to find right clothes and hairstyles while dieting right now)
I love attention
I’m capable of empathy but I ignore it
My world relies on cold logic
I’m very aggressive and I bully people
People say I’m rude and I have no respect for people but I don’t know why
I manipulate constantly
I can read you like you wouldn’t believe, I could easily be a successful psychologist/psychiatrist… but I don’t think I want to, if I ever pursued that career I’d convince the people they needed to see me every week for the rest of their life
I sabotage relationships so I can get the girl I want (but I’ve become so good at it they don’t know I tried to sabotage it)
I’m an adrenaline junkie (anything that gives me a rush, such as energy drinks and bodyblows)
My mom needs to die
I’m unaffected at funerals
Boredom doesn’t affect me
My IQ is extremely high
I rely on cold logic throughout life
I’m easily irritable
I take out my aggression on punching objects (such as my door) and fighting
My dad thinks I’m the spawn of Satan (he told me that over the phone)
He thinks I’m rude and disrespectful so he’s telling my mom, what the hell did I do
anything else you need?
If I don’t find a girl physically attractive I won’t even bother getting to know them or manipulating them.
I have few male friends but I also think oddly, my state of mind obviously isn’t the average persons.
Whats the difference in HPD and NPD
The only difference I see is one is arrogant and one will take any attention whatsoever
But I desire attention and exaggerate everything I say in public
I warp the exaggerations into me actually believing it is true so telling the truth even in private is hard
I’ll go into stages, I have absolutely no empathy, sympathy, feelings, etc. at all and I’ll just choose to call up my dad and have no particular reason other than boredom and impulses to try and make him believe something outrageous or just tell him crap for no damn reason
or people will see me as a normal person sometimes
it depends, I’m capable of empathy but it isn’t strong if I end up going into an episode where I am
And I just love proving to people I’m better than them, if I’m good at something I’ll tell everyone or if anyone thinks they can beat me in that I’ll challenge them, no ones better than me. if someone beat me and just tried to put me down in front of a crowd (which would just make me mad if anything) I’d go out of my way to be better than them, go back to them and put their ass down harder than anyone. Or I would just fight them. I’m unpredictable on many levels
My Personality Disorder Online Test Scores
(every facebook test I take always comes out as a sociopath too, why do they see it as a disorder. I don’t want any damn help I just want to know)
Disorder | Rating
Paranoid: Very High
Schizoid: Low
Schizotypal: Very High
Antisocial: High
Borderline: Moderate
Histrionic: Very High
Narcissistic: Very High
Avoidant: Moderate
Dependent: Moderate
Obsessive-Compulsive: High
I need stimulation and adrenaline
I have panic attacks
My uncle is a Sociopath/Schizophrenic
My Dad has anxiety
My mom has anger issues
I wet my bed until I was about 6-8
My mom tries to convince me to feel remorse.
I think she’s an idiot.
I think she needs to die.
I sometimes wish when shes driving home she would crash
Empathy, Sympathy, Guilt, Remorse, Stupid stuff. They never bring anything to anyone, I&#
I didn’t steal the question you idiots, I’ve made 4 of these with horrible answers

Lukes Love Life answers:
Funny enough i saw this Question last night, but it was by someone else.
No need to copy and edit someone Else’s answer!

George asks…
Adolescent psychosis? HELP?
Sometimes I believe things that are just out of the ordinary, one time I just cried and worried because I thought the government was tapping my phone lines.
I thought I blew up Jupiter (dream) and that they just sent me back in time for me to forget about it.
I’ll think life is a test and I was put here to be tested, I have no remorse whatsoever for anything I do but I do fear consequences. and think I’m more intelligent than anyone on this earth.
stuff like that
I’m having nightmares and just twitching right when I’m about to fall asleep, in school and home.
Sometimes I’ll wake up and just have a panic attack and run next to my door like there’s going to be devastating earthquakes or something. (anxiety disorders run in my family, idk if i have it or not)
I see constant minor illusions (could just be interpretations) like I’ll see a shadow but no one else did.
or I’ll think a shadow is actually a cat
my uncle has schizophrenia but we believe it was from the hard drugs he did
I also kind of change personalities every day, I could be nice or I could be a total jerk.
read the lower posts to figure out what I am
I’m 14 years old
I went through puberty very early
I clean shave and pamper myself even though I’m completely heterosexual
(trying to find right clothes and hairstyles while dieting right now)
I love attention
I’m capable of empathy but I ignore it
My world relies on cold logic
I’m very aggressive and I bully people
People say I’m rude and I have no respect for people but I don’t know why
I manipulate constantly
I can read you like you wouldn’t believe, I could easily be a successful psychologist/psychiatrist… but I don’t think I want to, if I ever pursued that career I’d convince the people they needed to see me every week for the rest of their life
I sabotage relationships so I can get the girl I want (but I’ve become so good at it they don’t know I tried to sabotage it)
I’m an adrenaline junkie (anything that gives me a rush, such as energy drinks and bodyblows)
My mom needs to die
I’m unaffected at funerals
Boredom doesn’t affect me
My IQ is extremely high
I rely on cold logic throughout life
I’m easily irritable
I take out my aggression on punching objects (such as my door) and fighting
My dad thinks I’m the spawn of Satan (he told me that over the phone)
He thinks I’m rude and disrespectful so he’s telling my mom, what the hell did I do
anything else you need?
If I don’t find a girl physically attractive I won’t even bother getting to know them or manipulating them.
I have few male friends but I also think oddly, my state of mind obviously isn’t the average persons.
Whats the difference in HPD and NPD
The only difference I see is one is arrogant and one will take any attention whatsoever
But I desire attention and exaggerate everything I say in public
I warp the exaggerations into me actually believing it is true so telling the truth even in private is hard
I’ll go into stages, I have absolutely no empathy, sympathy, feelings, etc. at all and I’ll just choose to call up my dad and have no particular reason other than boredom and impulses to try and make him believe something outrageous or just tell him crap for no damn reason
or people will see me as a normal person sometimes
it depends, I’m capable of empathy but it isn’t strong if I end up going into an episode where I am
And I just love proving to people I’m better than them, if I’m good at something I’ll tell everyone or if anyone thinks they can beat me in that I’ll challenge them, no ones better than me. if someone beat me and just tried to put me down in front of a crowd (which would just make me mad if anything) I’d go out of my way to be better than them, go back to them and put their *** down harder than anyone. Or I would just fight them. I’m unpredictable on many levels
My Personality Disorder Online Test Scores
(every facebook test I take always comes out as a sociopath too, why do they see it as a disorder. I don’t want any damn help I just want to know)
Disorder | Rating
Paranoid: Very High
Schizoid: Low
Schizotypal: Very High
Antisocial: High
Borderline: Moderate
Histrionic: Very High
Narcissistic: Very High
Avoidant: Moderate
Dependent: Moderate
Obsessive-Compulsive: High
I need stimulation and adrenaline
I have panic attacks
My uncle is a Sociopath/Schizophrenic
My Dad has anxiety
My mom has anger issues
I wet my bed until I was about 6-8
My mom tries to convince me to feel remorse.
I think she’s an idiot.
I think she needs to die.
I sometimes wish when shes driving home she would crash
Empathy, Sympathy, Guilt, Remorse, Stupid stuff. They never bring anything to anyone, I&#

Lukes Love Life answers:
Sounds to me… That you just WANT all of that to be true, so you do your best to make it true. I knew a guy like that way back in high school. I punched him in the face once. He deserved it.
Why don’t you stop trying to make yourself feel special, and just start living life? It’s a lot more enjoyable once you accept that most people are the same.

Joseph asks…
Am I doing the right thing for this relationship, or am I being a negative cynic?
I’ve recently started seeing a friend whom I’d already known for a few years. He is a sweet, caring and down to earth guy.
Most men I’ve been with in the past have been controlling, abusive & egotistical so this relationship feels like a breath of fresh air.
But to my own surprise I often find myself trying to test his limits to see if his feelings towards me genuine or is it just another game? I say & do things which I don’t mean. This could end up sabotaging the relationship, and I don’t want that to happen.
Am I being wise trying to protect myself here (after all he has been recently divorced & could be rebounding – to which he says he is not) or am I turning into a cynic who can’t see a good thing when it comes along?
Thank you for your feedback…

Lukes Love Life answers:
You are simply taking advantage of his generosity and kindness just like the guys did to you….stop it and be happy that you found a good man!

Lizzie asks…
How can I get him back from……his mother? Most EVIL in-laws EVER!! Very long & complicated!?
6 years & 2 kids later, he STILL chooses his mother over me everytime! I don’t know how else to describe his family but the term EVIL is the only thing that comes to mind. For 3 of the 6 years his mother lived with us due to her severe addiction to…bingo. Every dime she made was spent on her habit not bills or food (which she ate alot of but never cooked or cleaned up after herself). For three years I cleaned up after this woman everyday without a foul word towards her. I did everything there was to do around the house. When she was home she treated me like I was the house slave. When she wasn’t around me she spread the most horrible lies to anyone who would listen. She was constantly convincing him I was cheating on him, even when he knew deep down it was not true. it’s not just her, it’s his sister too! His sister “pretended” to be my best friend for a year. While smiling in my face and acting like we were sisters at heart she was secretly sabotaging our relationship. I didn’t realize what she was doing until several people asked me why I’m her friend when she talks so badly about me? Well once I cut that so-called friendship off it got even worse! For BOTH of my pregnancies they told everybody I had cheated and he wasn’t the father. For our first child they even convinced him of it & I had to get a DNA test to prove to him I had not cheated and it was his baby. Our second child was his little twin so once he was born he had no doubts. His mother is STILL living with us throughout all of this craziness!! (Sounds a little Jerry/Maury-ish right?) For every fight he & I had she was in on too. You wonder why put up with the bs? This man is the love of my life. His family treats him like the whipping boy. He is constantly seeking their approval at all costs. His mother was abusive in every aspect when he was growing up due to her bingo addiction. He used to go so far as to mow lawns to make money to send her off so she wouldn’t home & be mean to him & his brothers/sister. I see him chasing her love and trying to show her that she is #1 in his life & she just treats him like sh!t. If she decides to make up some crazy lie about me, he will fight & argue with me but it seems like he is more so trying to convince himself she wouldn’t lie to him. ONCE he chose me over her. only because one night when he wasn’t home she and his sister jumped me in my own home! They beat me very badly. She tried to tell him I attacked her first but THANKFULLY he knew me better than that. That was when she had to go! Even then my children and myself had to live at MY sisters for 2 weeks because she refused to leave. Finally she moved out & in with her daughter. Her daughter dearest could only handle her for less than 2 months before she insisted she find her own place. SO she found her own place & guilted anguilt-edf her sons to move in to help support her. Even though she has been out of our home for nearly 3 years she still controls our relationship. Still spreading the most awful lies about me & it was so embarrasing going to their family functions with everyone scowling at me because of what she had told them all. I just stopped going all together. I still let him take the kids so that they could be with their fathers family. Until one day my face was on a forwarded txt message that I was a prostitute! It circulated like wildfire & I didn’t want to show my face in public again. I told him that was it the VERY last straw. I decided since they were so hell bent on making my life utterly miserable they must not have any respect for my children. He knew deep down that I was right and tried to support my decision. They immediatly started guilting him. Mind you she has other grandchildren she hasn’t tried to see in years from her other sons ex’s who endured the same abuse from their family. They don’t call those kids or anything but because my children’s dad is so gullible he caved & left me AND our kids. He has moved in with her already playing catch up on her past due bills while ours are piling up! He hasn’t seen our kids in over a week now when he seen them everyday. It is so sad that my babies have to miss out on their Daddy because HIS Mommy dearest doesn’t have her way. She has even had my kids saying “Mommy’s a B!tch”. How can I save him from his mother? He knows what type of person she is and he only chooses her because she is so relentless and will not let him live a normal life. If he tries to make me happy she refuses to speak to him. After so many years of emotional abuse, he is like a child still trying to make mommy proud. The problem is she will never be proud of him! She will never let him have her unconditional love. He has that with me & our babies he knows that. Is there any hope for my family? I’ve tried to explain to him that once a man becomes a father he has created his own family and THEY should be his #1, but his M
His mother tells him SHE comes first. His dad lived by the same motto but had a wonderful loving mother. Nobody knows how awful she really is to him because he doesn’t say anything. I have been a stay at home Mommy this whole time taking very good care of him and our children. I show them lots of love everyday for fear they will someday doubt me. I love this man! I truly want to save our family!

Lukes Love Life answers:
Genesis 2:24, “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.”
He has yet to leave and cleave.
If you’re christians at all you should take this to your pastor.

Carol asks…
Fiance gaining weight. Is she testing me?
I’m a personal trainer. My fiance used to work out with me. She has since gained 40 pounds. She knows I like the fitness model type.
Do you think she’s testing me to see if I really love her? Maybe to see if I cheat or lose interest? Shouldn’t a girl about to get married be concerned about her weight? Maybe she is trying to sabotage the relationship?

Lukes Love Life answers:
Why don’t you ask her what’s up, instead of people who don’t know her? I doubt she’s packing on pounds just to “test” you, but weight gain does occur for various reasons and some of them are emotional (or emotionally based)…
Talk to her about it…fat isn’t healthy or pretty…you two need to work this out before saying “I do” if there’s a chance you’ll wish you hadn’t if she stays heavy or gets even larger…hard to be intimate with someone whose appearance turns you off…
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