Your Questions About Save Relationship After Affair

Is it possible to continue a relationship after an affair?

We have been together for 4 years we have a 20 month baby. I found out that he have been having an affair with his supervisor at work. I forgive him for it because i want our relationship to work but I cant seem to forget the affair i keep throwing it in his face.Can our relationship be saved?

I recently admitted to fiance about affair after i felt she had been unfaithful. Can we save our relationship?

Can you save engagement after an affair?

I’ve been with my man now for over a year. We are engaged. I’m an alcoholic and ended up sleeping with another man while drinking. I drink to the point of blacking out so I don’t know what I’m doing. This guy works with me so I knew what had happened afterwards. I wanted to be honest with my fiance so I told him what happened. He ended up moving out 3 days later. I know he’s angry and hurt, but I really do love him and he says he still loves me. But how can you rebuild the relationship after something like this happens. I know it’s possible, but I want advice from people that have been in a similar situation. And I’m sure I’ll get some bad responses too. But I didn’t do it on purpose.
I am going to counseling and taking meds to curb my cravings. I also do have a 10-year-old son. I think that a loved one should be there to help the other through these hard times, not run.

can u save a marriage after an affair?

my husband and i have been together now for 6years and married for 3months..our relationship had its ups and downs but before getting married we both sat and discussed and agreed on how we imagined and wanted our life together to be like..after we were married we were happy for a little while, but then it started to turn for the worse…he started getting more and more distant and was always irritated..we would talk about his attitudes and his negative behavior, and hed apologize and promise to do better, but itd only continue..he then started to stay gone for long periods of tume throughout the day and not feel as though he had to explain himself..obviously i asked questions, and did my own investigations when he refused to give me answers..i found out that he was having an affair and the next day i filed for a divorce..now the divorce is in process and we’re still awaiting a court hearing..i have talked to him since the night i left him, and he constantly apologizes for what hes done..he says that he wants to, and will, contest to the divorce and request time for counseling to reconcile our marriage..he swears that he regrets everything and it will never happen again..and that he loves and wants to be with his wife–his “life”..now i already know my family will not stand for this at all, but i am still very much in love with him and want for our marriage to last and work..he suggested that we move states and start over together-just the two of us..free from either of our families and friends opinions and judgement..a part of me wants to move away and start over with him, but at the same time im very hurt by his betrayel and am scared to make that sacrifice..can a marriage be saved after an affair?

How can I save my marriage after an affair?

I’m married to my husband for 8 years now. Our marriage had ups and downs. After about a year of marriage he started getting drunk every weekend and sleeping in until 3:00pm in the afternoon I was getting frustrated. He also has a “World of War craft” game addiction which means he would spend hours and hours on the computer playing this game. On a typical Saturday night he would be upstairs playing on his computer while I was downstairs watching TV.
We would never do things together like others couples do. I have asked him to stop drinking and start spending time with me. He would stop drinking for a little while and stop playing his game and then a few weeks later, he would get back to his addictions. I felt very lonely and could not handle it anymore, so I told him that I wanted a divorce. He ignored that. Then I met a guy in college and things happened that should have not happened. I felt accepted by that new guy; he gave me what I so craved for all this years and I ended up having an affair. My husband found out and all the sudden started losing weight, shaving on a daily basis, wanting to work out with me and spending more time together. My husband said that he loved me and he wanted our marriage to save. Deep down I did too, I still love him deeply and the affair was a very bad mistake on my part. I should have never done it…I feel so bad about it. Now, three months later my husband said that he could not live with the thought anymore that I had an affair and he wants some distance. We still own a house together, he wants to sell it and move into separate places for a while. I told him that our relationship is not going to be saved if we live in separate places. I still love him and I want to save my marriage, but I don’t want to live in separate places…………I just don’t know what to do? What can I do to save this marriage and win his trust back?