Your Questions About Sexting Examples For Women

Why do women complain when the laws they created are eventually used on them?

Recently there’s a bunch of stories in the news where law enforcement and prosecutors are abusing many of the special crimes laws that Women‘s Groups lobbied for.

One example: Last week a Mom was charged with (Felony Harassment) for going into her 16 yr old teen sons facebook account and changing his password so he couldn’t get back on. I have no idea what, when, where or why but the point is she’s the mother (parent), the state government is not the Parent.

I believe I heard the 16 yr old was also seeking a restraining order. That’s just one example.

Teen sexting is another example where Prosecutors are arresting and putting teens on the sex offenders list for life. Again another area where the Parents should handle this situation.

So why are Moms on the News with their Lawyers screaming fowl when their own special laws have come home to roost?

That why you don’t give the government or the state more and more power, because they abuse it.

Parents: What’s with you these (Its long but worth reading)?

What’s with parents these days?
Its like they don’t even know their children at all. Do you not live with your kids or something?

For example: A question on here was asked by a woman’s friend. The friend’s friend wants to get her 16 year old son a cell phone but wants to be able to sneakily foward the text message and the asked wanted to know if this was possible. She didn’t want the son sexting or other “BS”.

Does the woman not speak to her son? Does she not even know him well enough to know if he would do things like that?

It just seems to me like parents don’t know their teens and only see them as teenagers and live by the motto that teenagers should never be trusted no matter what, sheerly based on the fact that they are teenagers. Also that parents would rather use the latest technology to spy on their kids instead of getting to know them and who they are as a person.

Another example: I am 19 and my mom has picture texting blocked on my cell phone. Why you may ask? Because I am a teenager and teenagers sext. -.- I rest my case. I actually don’t know how to put my thoughts into words with this one. It makes me feel like she doesn’t even know me…I feel like I should go ask if she even remembers my name.

Its seems like parents would rather spy and not trust their teens because they are teenagers than taking them time to get to know their teenager.

And another thing:
Why do people say if you are a teenager and doing this or that then this (insert horrible thing here) WILL happen?
Ex: If you don’t constantly supervise teens on the internet Johnny McChildPreadator will get them on myspace no ifs ands or buts about it.
Its like thank you miss cleo for your insight of the furture..

These same people think that no matter how great a teenager is or no matter their personal beliefs or how informed and safe they are they simply shouldn’t ever be trusted because they are a teenager.

What is up with this?
Its not very logical and its a pretty dootdodooo googly eyed way of blindly running around through life spying and not trusting way of life.
No I am not mad at my mommy.
I am mad at all the people who sterotype and make generalization about teenagers soley based on their age.

And I did ask a question…
Whats up with all that?
Who do people feel the need to be like that?
Why don’t they take the time to know their kids instead of not trusting them or thinking they are not to be trusted ever?

Can anyone double check my Argument Summery?

Here are 2 Argument Summaries, plz check for errors, thx.

Gibbs Argument Summary

In “Cell-Phone Second Thoughts” Nancy Gibbs argues that cell phones demolish a teen’s life through wasting time, cheating on tests, organizing fights, bulling class mates, and more commonly, sexting. She claims that when teens upload an image of themselves naked, many people get offended and that teen gets arrested for “sexual abuse of children”. Gibbs provides a research in which a fifteen year old girl was charged for that same cause. Gibbs illustrates that when teens upload their image, it will never be deleted and when that teen want to run for president or be something important, she or he can be abused by that stupid mistake made a long time ago. Lastly, the author asks for more laws regarding kids having a cell phone. Nancy Gibbs purpose is to warn parents in order to protect their children from destroying their own life. This work is significant because many teens in the twentieth century use technology in the wrong way, though at the beginning of establishing cell-phones, it was thought they will simple every-one’s life.

9-1-1 Argument Summary

Theola Labbe-DeBose argues that 9-1-1 needs improvement through hiring more operators and establishing a department for text messages. She claims that text messaging 9-1-1 might come in handy when someone needs help who can not communicate through voice. DeBose develops this claim by first illustrating a real life event in which a teenager had only one way to get help, which was to text 9-1-1, though at that time and place the police station was not “modernised enough”. Secondly, she assists her claim by providing an example in which an ex-boyfriend of a homeowner violated a restraining order and broke in, the women, Flores texted 9-1-1 and the police arrived. Unfortunately, text messaging is only available in some places, such as Iowa. Lastly, the author provides a counter, she demonstrates that establishing text messages in a police station costs a-lot of money. Theola Labbe-DeBose purpose is to inform citizens that texting 9-1-1 is another option that anyone can have. This work is important because our technology is developing every minute but our very police stations are doing the opposite.
TELL Me where they are cause i dont see any.

Does he deserve another chance?

I found texts on my husbands phone that were from one of his female co-workers (she’s actually on mat. leave right now) The texts were sexual in nature, a couple of examples are ~ she is talking about how he likes to look at her “twins” and she’ll wear that shirt for him if he wants and another one was telling him not to wear those jeans cos she can’t stop looking at his “a**” and finally the worst one was something about sneaking around for the past 2 years (not sure if that meant affair or sneaking peeks or what) I am extremely hurt also because I talked about her to him like 2 weeks ago about how I felt insecure b/c she texted him a few weeks ago asking him if he missed her…I thought that seemed weird to me. This woman has a husband (who apparently cheated on her repeatly) 2 kids and she is in her 30′s. My husband and I have 2 small children as well. I find it weird that my husband knows so much of her personal life (like her husband cheats) I am extremely hurt and am contemplating leaving. I have not talked to him since I read these. He has not asked what is wrong with me or anything. I feel like I’ve had my heart ripped out. Their text convo ended saying she’ll chat with him on fb later. What should I do?? I don’t want my relationship to end but I will not put up with a pig.

so finally after 2 days of walking wounded~ I asked him if there was anything he wanted to tell me, he played dumb and made me come right out and ask wtf is going on with these texts~ then he told me that he didn’t feel close to me at the time (last week) & that it was the first and only time he ever done anything like this, & how after he told her that it wasn’t right that they had this “sexting convo” & it ended there & then. I am just hurting so bad right now. I feel like my love isn’t good enough for him. I feel like I’ve already lost him. He blames me: he said that he has felt neglected & unloved by me…she made him feel bettr. I have treated him with love respect and honor. I have held our relationship very sacred and have tried my best to show him happiness in love. But I guess it wasn’t good enough~ He says he loves me & could never be happy w/o me. I just don’t know, b/c if he truly loved me why would he do this? they will be working 2gether again soon. How do I deal? I am crushed. Also we are walking around like strangers in our home. He asked me to think long and hard b4 I make a decision that will ruin our family, I don’t think he though of our family while he was staring at her breasts. It’s a bad movie that play over in my head. Do you think he actually loves me or is just with me for our children?
He swears to God he never ever cheated on me…He said it was just a stage.

how do i tell my brother i dont want to invite his girlfriend along to my nights out with friends.?

Firstly I think his girlfriend is lovely, I get on well with her and have made the effort, we have gone to dinner together, go get our nails done together and have gone out for drinks and cinema together. I really do think she is lovely.

but thing is my brother bow keeps pitting me in an awkward position, when i see them and we chat about what i have been up to, I front of her he basically tells me i should be inviting her.
For example i was telling them how me and a friend go swimming together, he then butts in and says “next time you should invite Amy along” im put in a position that is difficult to say no because she is sitting there. She has once said “maybe your sister doesn’t want me there” (i think to help get me out of feeling i have to say yes) but that just makes be feel worse. Another example is he asked what i had done the previous night and i said my friends and i take turns at having film nights at our houses, again on front of her “next time you do that you should invite Amy” also he often just says “you should arrange nights out with your friends and invite Amy alone”.

Like I said I like her and do enjoy hanging out with her, but I dont want her tagging along on nights out because 1. I don’t want to have to be the one to look after a grown woman because im the only one she knows 2. I wouldn’t be able to talk openly with friends as I don’t want her reporting back to my brother and 3. I dont want to get too close to the girl my brother will end up treating like crap, I have already found out he had been sexting (dirty texting) a friend of mine for months (not a friend I often see so it would be unlikely they would meet) and he cheated on his ex so i don’t doubt he will do it again. If i got really close to her i dont think i could bear the thought of knowing what he will be doing behind her back, and i really don’t want to get involved.

He just sent me a text saying “i think you should invite Amy out the next time you go on a girls night out with your friends”

I did think about replying “you mean friends like Rebecca” (the girl he had been dirty texting) but to be honest I don’t want to bring up a conversation about that, I know he knows I know, I had an few cross words with rebecca about it and told her to stop texting him, I know she told him I had found put they were talking and I wasn’t happy about it.

how can I politely tell him, I would rather keep her out of my personal life/friendships. I will still be happy to go out with her when its just us.